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Guys,<BR>Since I seen OM friday. I am back at square one. I didnt call today!!!<BR><~~~~patting myself on the back...<P>However, I dont know what to say in the no contact letter. I need you rhelp. I done a search and didnt find any examples. I need to get this done. I feel like it will tie up the lose end here. <P>I need suggestions..<P>Keep me in your prayers. I dont know if I am strong enought to go through this again. <P>WHY DO I KEEP SEEING HIM? I SEEN HIM YESTERDAY....... <BR>WHAT IS THE DEAL HERE?<P>
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Imamess,<P>Go to the recovery board and sk them..<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>
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I don't have much to offer I didn't write a letter or even say anything...but I would think since you are I would think you love your H and now know you want your marriage to be the best you can make it, tell him (OM) how you feel about your H and you want to be with H and you will be in no way in contact with him (OM) and you hope he will respect your wishes and let you have the marriage you want for you and H. DON'T say I am going to miss you or anything like that. Just think short. Not short and sweet just short. Like you are writing the Phone Company and are canceling your account, OM..... I love and want my H...do not contact me I will no contact you...please respect my decision...inamess.<BR>Don't know if I helped or not but like I said I didn't do anything like this.<BR>Lesa<BR><P>------------------<BR>"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and<BR> lean not unto thine own understanding." -Proverbs 3:5<BR>Take care and God Bless.<P> lms20ish@jobe.net
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Oh yeah if you feel the need to call OM call H instead or carry a family picture and look at it as what you would be throwing away if you did call. <BR>Lesa<BR><P>------------------<BR>"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and<BR> lean not unto thine own understanding." -Proverbs 3:5<BR>Take care and God Bless.<P> lms20ish@jobe.net
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I agree with LMS. Don't express any emotion towards OM in the letter. Be firm and direct: "I do not want to ever see you again, my family means more to me than you ever could." "My H is one of the best things that ever happened to me and I'm not going to risk losing him to you." Those are just example statements. Look at him as the enemy, because he is. He has attacked the unity of your family long enough.<P>Be encouraged, you can do this. We all believe in you and support you.<P>------------------<BR>"If you can learn from the mistakes of others, you won't have to make them youself."<P>lady_divine77@yahoo.com
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