Opinions welcone....<P>As most of you know, I'm moving into plan-b on the 15th...<P>I'm thinking about getting my lovely a v-day card and a <B>small</B> house plant...<BR>I am planning on leaving them on her doorstep...<BR>She will arrive w/LRB and they will be right there for tem both to see...I have no expectations....I just want to make sure she knows I love her and want her back....<P>The next day SIL is going to hand deliver my plan-b letter...SIL will also give LRB his version of the letter at the same time....<P>What do ya's think????<P><BR>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

Bill,<P>You are so very nice!!!<P>This is a wonderful gesture to reinforce to Robin that PlanB is not about being punitive, but about protecting yourself and your feelings.<P>I like this idea....!!<P>Desiree<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>

Desiree,<P>I am glad you read it that way...it was how I intended it...<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

I agree with Desiree. I think it sounds like a genuinely nice thing to do. Good luck and be strong.

Bill,<P>You are a very sweet man. I just had to say that too. <P>I think that your plan is perfect and definitely confirms that you still love her and the door is open to her.<P>I will be praying as always and anxious upon my arrival back home from the trip to BC to read the update on what transpires.<P>Much love,<P>------------------<BR><B>God bless you and all of us. We are all going to make it, all of us! With God on our side we can't loose. What God has joined together let no man put asunder. <P>Samantha</B>

I guess it's OK & sweet... right now I am thinking what I'll do that day & can't come up with any ideas...<P>Alex<p>[This message has been edited by ThisAlex (edited February 07, 2000).]

Bill,<BR>I think that is wonderful. Very sweet, and a great way to show her you care.<P>Alex,<BR>Feel free to post your ideas... we'll give you our opinions!<P>Personally, I'm going to buy a BIG box of chocolates, an even Bigger bottle of wine, and rent a good sappy movie. I'm used to spending V-day alone, but this year, I'm going to spend it With MYSELF, not alone! I'm developing a postive outlook again!<P>Anyhoo... that's my 2 cents worth!<BR>B<P>------------------<BR>There are deep sorrows and killing cares in life, but the encouragement and love of friends were given us to make all difficulties bearable. <BR>-- John Oliver Holmes<P>The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.<BR>-- Elie Wiesel<P><BR>

Very good. It's wonderful.<P>{{{{{{{{{{{{{Bill}}}}}}}}}}}}}}<P>Lori

Bill,<P>That sounds like a very sweet thing to do. And I pray that your lovely comes to her senses and realizes that she is missing out on being with a wonderful person who loves her so very much. <P>I am praying that this happens for you.

Bill,<P>I read your "letter" but now I can't find it. I wanted to print it out because I thought it was very eloquent. Where is it????<P><P>------------------<BR>Keridwen

Bill,<P>What a lovely thought and gesture!!! You are doing so well leading up to plan B it will be a seemless transition.<BR>Love to you! <BR>So are you going to take D out for a "date" on Valentines day? How about a movie and an ice-cream sundae? I know our D loves her "dates" with Arik!!!<P>------------------<BR>Love and Prayers<BR>Nicole

Bill,<P>I think its a great idea.<P>For V-day, I've decided to send my wife 22<BR>long stem red roses to her work on Friday (11th), each individually tagged with numbers 1 - 22. The numbers represent each year of her life before we met that we missed valentines day together.<P>She then goes on a bus. trip on Sat. - Wed.,<BR>so when she arrives on Sat. the Hotel will have the 23rd rose on her pillow, also numbered, with a card representing the first valentines YEAR we spent together. Finally, on Valentines Day itself, when she arrives to her hotel in the evening, the final 24th numbered rose will be on her pillow with beautiful card that says on the outside "I Love You", and on the inside "It's as simple as that".<P>I have no Idea what this will do to or for her, but it tells her that I love her - something I know she's longing to hear because I haven't said it in a long time, and she nearly lynched me when she thought I had said it but hadn't.<P>Again, great idea Bill.<P>SamH

bill,<BR>hey I know just how you mean what you are going to do. even after H told me his plain for when he gets here,I am sending him his birthady give of homemade goodies his b-day happens to br v-day as well. I will put in a card from the kids and a simple note frome me saying..."Earl, happy birthday I hope you have a good one. I love you. Lesa" I have told him and he knows I will wait for him even thought he dosent want me now.<BR>so I like what you are going to do.<BR>Lesa<P>------------------<BR>"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and<BR> lean not unto thine own understanding." -Proverbs 3:5<BR>Take care and God Bless.<P> lms20ish@jobe.net

Bill,<P>Sorry it took me so long to respond. I wasn't able to get on last night nor earlier today. But, I love the idea. I too think, well I know, YOU ARE A GREAT MAN!<P>I'm praying for you!<P>------------------<BR>"If you can learn from the mistakes of others, you won't have to make them youself."<P>lady_divine77@yahoo.com