My dilemma: My H is most likely an alcoholic even though he won't admit to more than drinking too much sometimes. He has admitted to having a "friend" and I know that he is still seeing her. I have been doing Plan A basically since I found the two of them kissing in August. Now I am fed up with him having his cake and eating it too. I was thinking of Plan B however he won't move out of the house and I don't feel that I should. My family is telling me I should proceed with a divorce which I have filed for but since put on hold. He has done nothing to proceed with it either. So what do I do? I can't continue to let him come and go as he pleases with the OW and I don't want to. But if he won't leave the house how do I do Plan B. Or should I just move on with the divorce and let happen what may. As each day goes by and he stays out nights drinking with the OW I lose more and more feeling for him. He even stood me up on our anniversary and just happened to run into her that night and didn't come home that night the next night and two nights later. So last week alone he was gone three nights. I continue to find it hard to sleep at night and go to work during the day not to mention I am still losing weight. Any thoughts?????

BC <BR>My heart and prayers go out to you. I know what it is like to have your H out all night. Sometimes it was bars, out with the guys, or possible the OW he is seeing now. That feeling of "waiting around" is the worst. <P>I wish I could answer your question but I am not familiar with Plan B too much. I saw a link by NSR that went into great details on this. <P>Just wanted to offer you some support while I was here.