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#846008 02/11/00 01:35 AM
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<P>[This message has been edited by dzrt (edited February 10, 2000).]<p>[This message has been edited by dzrt (edited February 10, 2000).]

#846009 02/11/00 01:39 AM
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dzrt - it's up to you. But I did. I mean, when H was living w/ PT and saying he wanted a divorce, I sent nice cards for every occasion. AND HE KEPT THEM ALL.<P>Can't hurt, I figure.<P>Lori

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I am in the same dilemma, modified Plan A (we are living apart). I see him or hear from him almost everyday because of our kids. I decided to do the Valentine thing because it might help put some Love Units in his Love Bank. I can only say it can't hurt. Being kind and thoughtful never hurt anyone. But ultimately, you have to decide.<P><P>------------------<BR>Keridwen

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I don't want to give you any bad advice because I have no experience in this area for your situation. <P>But I can tell you I wish "I" got one from my H on V Day. If you are looking for a good site, try bluemountain.com<P>They have a lot of touching ones and all free. <P>Suggestion, edit your topic from A QUESTION and make it more specific, so people with this experience will notice your topic, you might get more replies.<P>Good luck !!!

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Lonelymom,<P> How do I edit my topic?<P>dzrt

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I am in the same mess 4000 miles away from H but I am sending a gift and note to tell him I love him, I think it is ok, I ask NSR the same question and he said he didnt see any thing wrong with it.<BR>Lesa<P>PS on the topic you cant just have to make a new one [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>------------------<BR>"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and<BR> lean not unto thine own understanding." -Proverbs 3:5<BR>Take care and God Bless.<P> lms20ish@jobe.net

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dzrt<P>Sorry I am new here, just a week ago. I think Jim (nsr) told me how to edit last week. I went in and now I can't remember. I still don't know how to put smiles, frowns, bold, anything, so my letters all look pretty boring!!<P>Did you check out that web site? There are a lot of touching ones that are about love, in love, ex love, as well. <P>Now you have me wondering , should I send an e-card too? I can't send one by mail, H lives with OW, but I can send one by email. Maybe I will. <P>Is Modified Plan A just Plan A but you live seperate?? <P>Let us know if you decide to do it, I will see if I can figure how to edit, I know I had to edit something last week!

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To edit your post just click on the pencil and paper icon next to the sunglasses. Make changes or add to post and then submit.<P>As far as the smiley faces, frowns, grins, ect.... Go to post new topic and then click on the smilies legend and it will give you the codes.<P>And finally for quotes, bold, italics, ect...<BR>click on the UBB code and it will also give you the codes...<P>I have no idea what your question is, so I'll just keep you in prayers!<P>------------------<BR>"If you can learn from the mistakes of others, you won't have to make them youself."<P>lady_divine77@yahoo.com


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