This is really confusing! My H moved OW down here to Alabama from Missouri 6 months ago and they have been living together ever since. The OW husband called me tonight to tell me his W was in Missouri (where he still lives). Apparently, she called him to say she wouldn't see the kids tonight as she has a new boyfriend and is going to visit him. (Now, this woman should be mother of the year!) Well, I didn't tell this man that I knew my H was also there on a business trip. The OW husband did know that my husband was out of town too. He finally put two and two together and realized the two spouses were there together. We hung up and a short time later called me back. He said he made a few phone calls to hotels around the area they would be staying and guess what? He discovered what hotel they were staying at! He then called the hotel and asked to be connected to my H room. When my H answered, the Ow husband told him that he knew that his wife was with him. Of course, my H hung up on him. He then called and spoke with the front desk and was told by the receptionist that she was cussed out by a woman in that room for putting the call through. Well, the OW husband got the receptionist's name, etc. as he felt it might be useful in court. Then, my H calls me at 10:30 wanting to know why I told that he was up there. I told him I didn't but it didn't take a brain surgeon to figure it out. He then asked to talk to the kids. I told him no, as it was too late. We have an agreement through the attorneys that he will only call twice a week between the hours of 6 PM and 8 PM to speak with the children. Not once has he called between these hours! I finally hung up on him after he kept saying the OW was not with him. He and OW claim that they are only roomates and there is nothing sexual going on, but they are alway together. They work together, live together and aparently do everything together. I finally hung up on him because I am just so sick of the lies!!! I can't believe he still won't admit he is having an affair. And I can't believe I still love him! I suppose I will continue plan B and hope he will come around eventually. How long can it last when they spend every minute of day with each other? I'm sorry this is so long, but I just had to vent! <P>ther? I'm sorry, but I just had to vent!

Tulip...<P>Good vent...<BR>It is refreshin to do that... every now and then.<P>Fantasies can't last forever.<BR>Keep firm in Plan B.<P>Prayers... <P>Jim