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W wants me to type up her resume so she can find a full time job. If she gets a full time job, she is going to move out. There is not much doubt about that.<P>If I type it, I am passively saying, "go ahead, move out, I'll help you" If I don't type it up I'm LBing. But I think this LB is one I am going to have to inflict on her. I do not want to assist her in any way shape or form in leaving this household.<P>What do you think?
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hopefull_1 -- I think I would agree that in this case you should not do this for your W. I would however explain to her that the reason you are not going to do this, is becasue you do not want her to leave.<P>If all you do is say no, then that is a BIG LB. If you explain your reaasoning as a desire to have the marriage work, then maybe it won't be such a big LB, if at all.<P>God Bless
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