Hi All,<P>Wow...This resentment is wearing me out today...I talked to a friend and he told me that I actualy resent what she's doing and not her....HMMM...I hate to say it hes right...As I type this it is staring to fade..<P>Just whated to let you all know where I was today...The commitee in my head is working overtime...LOL<P>Thanks,<P>Bill

Bill, <P>Your friend sounds right!! It kind of reminds me of Jim's saying, you hate the sin, not the sinner.<P>Of course YOU LOVE HER!!! We all love our spouses no matter what they have done. Thats why we are such great people.<P>Glad to see your update. I'm hoping for the best for you. <P>Dana<P>

<B>Bill</B>...<P>Patience... patience... and some more patience.<P>Let him work in His own time frame. Job did! you reminded me of that!<P>I'm praying for you! My brother... <P><B>Dana</B>... I can't believe you remember that from my <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum28/HTML/000677.html" TARGET=_blank>Not all OP are pieces of trash</A> reply... wow... and I still believe it too!<P>Jim<P>

Bill -- Yeah, don't you just hate it when <I>they're</I> right???<P>Be careful with that committee, my friend. Definitely don't let them make any decisions for you. You already know about decisions made by committee!!<P>Glad you're here, man....<P>--DeWayne--

Bill,<P>Some of this is just little ole PlanB working it's magic...helping you to cope. Someimtes you need to feel and then release the resentments in order to feel better in the long run.<P>Hang in there...<P>Desiree <P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>

Bill,<P>Prayers to you. Keep up the good work. <P>{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{BILL}}}}}}}}}}}}<P>------------------<BR>Love and Prayers<BR>Nicole

Hey Bill,<P>It really does get easier with the passage of time. Your mind will become clearer. It has been said that the betrayers are in fantasyland, the park that never closes.<P>We, the betrayed, are also in a fantasyland to be named at a later date. Hey, this can't be happening to me. I can't wait to wake up from this nightmare.<P>I am at the point where I can think about "them" being together. If it be out to dinner, a movie, or what ever else. It doesn't really bother me anymore. The thoughts don't have that vomit producing feeling that they once had. I'm growing.<P>It's Zippy's time again. I am almost 100% back to the outgoing, wierd sense of humor complete idiot that I really loved [Val surpressed the real me] and that everyone else seemed to like. <P>Things are going well for me and they will for you as well. <P>Keep posting, Bud. We will all make it through this together.<P>The Pinhead.

Hey Bill,<P>Just wanted to let you know with utmost sincerity, I think you're doing a great job. Stick with it, prayers are with you.<P>Connor