<BR>Someone please help. He said he has had no contact with her. Today was his day off, but he said he had to work I so wanted to believe it was true. It's almost midnight my time, he's not home. He called bout 800 pm said he was going to be late, but it's bee over 12 hours since ive seen him, I feel so hurt and betrayed, what if he is working, how do I approach him when gets home, if he comes home. I feel the pain coming in again and I don't know how to deal with it please someone give me some advice, regina

Regina,<P>You've got get back on the <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan A</A> wagon very quickly...<P>Be there for him... when he comes in the door...<BR>Don't yell, don't scream... don't <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3400_lovebust.html" TARGET=_blank>Love Bust</A>!<P>Let him know he has a "safe" environment to come home to... Help him in... don't talk him to death... or give the "inquisition"... help him to bed...<P>You'll have time tomorrow to gently let him know that you are hurt... by what he's done... that you fear his continued dishonesty... and explain what you feel.<P>Don't <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3400_lovebust.html" TARGET=_blank>Love Bust</A> tonight. There is the hope that some guilt may build in him tonight... so you can say the loving words tomorrow of you fears. Expressing your feelings to him is not a <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3400_lovebust.html" TARGET=_blank>Love Buster</A>! When he senses anger... disgust... judgment... then it's time for you to stop... but your feelings are legitimate.<P>I'm praying hard for you...<P>Patience... and a lot of it.<P>Jim

thanx , you seem to be able to tell me what I already know is true, it is deeply appreciated, one day these dark clouds will pass and we wil all be celebrating<BR> May God Bless and Keep You,regina<BR>