Boy , Girl what you did,(snicker, snicker)<P>I can't wait to see the made for T.V. movie, can I play the next door neighbor?<P>Seriously, I understand about the heat of the moment, but I'm basically a chicken.<P>Take care of yourself and remember to count to 10 or is it 3, the next time. We are all praying there won't be a next time.<P>{{{{{{You are PRECIOUS to us and him.}}}}}} <P> Think of how you would explain yourself at the Pearly Gates......"I had me a great recipe for skunk stew. Really."<P>------------------<BR>Peg

OH MY GOD! I can't help it, and I can't believe it myself, but I gasped and then (I still can't believe this) I smiled! Why is that???? <P>I don't know WHERE you live, but I can't imagine that you could get away with this! Also, with kids in the house, it isn't a good idea to leave a loaded gun around, you know? <P>Man! You shocked me!

Keosha,<BR> If I give you the OM's address,do you think you could go there and.......never mind.<BR> --Murph

I should have aimed!!! <P>I finally contacted H, started to confess everything and tell him how sorry I am for losing my temper and was prepared to do whatever he told me to do (go to police, etc). <P>OW had already talked to him. She had told him a “funny story” about how she had parked her car in the wrong place. It seems they were having a shooting match and that’s why none of the “good” parking places were taken. By the time she realized that they were shooting in the direction of her car (behind the drop) it had been hit 4 times. She was so mortified by her silly mistake! If he would have been here to protect her it would never have happened, etc. etc. etc.. He was actually feeling like it was his responsibility that she had to suffer this humiliating experience. Now H thinks I’m lying to him about her coming to see me. I never did get the full story told. He wouldn’t listen to me.<P>I can’t believe it! Even when I’m the bad guy, she finds a way to make me a worse bad guy. Now H thinks I made up the story and thinks I’m NUTS <P>Ok, maybe I AM nuts. How can she keep doing this to me? How does she always turn things around on me. Even when I try to do the right thing to follow up the wrong thing, it turns out to be the wrong thing. <P>Right now I wish I could pick my choice of OW to take her place. Any takers out there. I’ll pack him up and ship him to you. <P>Oh yea, the guys at the shooting club took up a collection to pay for the damage to her car. She pocketed over $2000.00 and her insurance will probably pay for the repairs. Think I could turn her in for insurance fraud? hee hee <P>I’m glad to see that everyone is enjoying this. If I wasn’t so mad right now I’d enjoy it too, maybe later.<P>------------------<BR>Keo<P>This roller coaster ride is for the birds! I get dizzy to easy.<p>[This message has been edited by Keosha (edited February 23, 2000).]

Keosha,<BR>If I give you an address & a photo..... <P>I've had a recurring dream ever since I got my new 4x4 that I went four wheeling over the twinky.... Then, last week, I saw her walking across a parking lot..... I almost made my dream come true!!! Another car got between us, and maybe it is a good thing! Actually, I don't think I would have really done it... why scratch the paint. I just don't care anymore, and Neither one of them is worth it.<P>Still, What I would have given to be a fly on your lawn today! <P>Thoughts & Prayers,<BR>Butterfly<P>------------------<BR>There are deep sorrows and killing cares in life, but the encouragement and love of friends were given us to make all difficulties bearable. <BR>-- John Oliver Holmes<P>The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.<BR>-- Elie Wiesel<P><BR>

Are you OK now ?<P>Have you taken a zillion deep breaths, and drunk something, anything....<P>I am still shaking my head, but please don't think that you can't post anything here.<BR>Anything at all. We can bear, and stand, it all. Whatever it is.<BR>I feel for you, and what you must be going through, but, I have to say this, I lived one of my fantasies through what you did...<P>It's not a fantasy any longer, I got over her a while ago, however, in the beginning, I thought of lots of ways to make her go away, ie, put her in the wheelie bin for the garbage collectors, push her in front of a train (don't think she catches a train !!) etc etc. <BR>Nobody I know in the city has a gun, so I couldn't even do that.<BR>Instead, I just left the state. Best move I ever made.<P>It is amazing how she has turned this around. Unbelievable. When will these spouses wake up to themselves ?<P>I will definitely read your posts from now on - I'm sorry I'm not treating this with the respect it deserves, however, I keep seeing granny clampitt with her gun, and imagining you.....<P>Not to imply that you're old, or hagged, or withered etc..... but I cannot stop smiling at the imagery.<P>Hugs to you<BR>Jo

Can't say that I have ever wanted to see my stbx dead or the OW. In fact, I think the other way. They can't feel pain or suffer if they are dead. I want them to live a nice long life. That way both of them can suffer and realize the effect that they had on innocent people. In fact, I hope the two of them end up together. It will make me mad if they don't. My stbx deserves a woman like her. Twice married. Cheated on both of her husbands......Has no family or personal morals or values. Just what he needs. She actually has 2 children, but is rarely with them. She thinks of only herself....just like him. What a great combination......he will be watching her....she will be watching him.....and they will both be cheating on each other. Makes for a happy, healthy and honest relationship. LOL They both deserve each others dishonesty....selfishness....love. That is the ultimate revenge anyone could want on a wayward spouse. I can't wait. But the sad part is I don't think he is with her anymore. Found someone new. In a bar. Great start for a meaningful relationship.<P>Nancy

I swear, K, I sure hope you've unloaded that gun and put it WAYYYY out of reach.<P>But I laughed! I'm sorry, I laughed my butt off. PT's been giving us such a hard time, I just lived vicariously through you! <P>Just don't do anything like that again, ok??? <P>Still chuckling!<P>Lori

((((((((((((((((((((KEOSHA)))))))))))))))<P><BR>Dylan here to play Devil's advocate.......<P>YOU GO GIRL..!!!!!!!!!!!<P>I know, I know, what everyone else said too....get rid of the gun, blah, blah, ....they are all correct.....but, I CANNOT and WILL NOT stand in judgment of your actions....you know what you did, and the consequences...and frankly, what's done is done..guilt over this you do not need...<P>Deut (my H) is literally rolling on the floor laughing himself silly....<P><BR>YOU GO GIRL..!!!!!!!<P>Show your H the spent shells, let him smell the gun....<P>You have done what oh so very many of us have only dreamed of...let's all admit it...<P>I'm glad for you that there will be no police involvement, and you are right.....someday, you WILL laugh....it is one hell of a story...<P>and after 8 years of this, I can't blame you for 'losing it'....<P>I am going to live vicariously through you ...our OW created a new internet identity and messengered me 2 nights ago....<P>Honey, in the words of THE GRATEFUL DEAD..."if I had me a shotgun, I'd blow her straight to hell...."<P>you take care of you.....even if he won't believe you..we know what really happened.. ...<P>hugs and strength to you !!!!!<P>Dylan

I'm sorry, in my eyes, NO piece of [censored] is worth going to jail for, married to it or not! Here I am in jail and H is living his life having a ball! OH HELL NO! NOPE, sorry, I am TOO VAIN to go out like that!

Keosha,<BR>How are you today? <P>Hopefully fine, let us know, okay?<P>------------------<BR>Allen<BR>sparky_dog_mb@yahoo.com

I'm sorry guys, but I am sitting here in my classroom and I am having uncontrollable fits of laughter because of this post!! <P>I almost can't contain myself and some of the students are looking at me funny.<P>You made my day! I do agree though, put the gun out of reach. I'm sure the police might actually care about this if your aim was better!!!!<P>Good luck!<P>P.S. Sparky... you trouble maker! Just kidding! <P>

I vote for "something worse." (And that would be??)<P>Regards and blessings,<P>--Wex