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'Something' is going on with the OW - a 'family emergency.'<P>Her <B>Mother]/b] just called here (!!!!) to see if my H knows how to contact her!!! The gaul! I can't believe it! It just goes on and on and on.........Yes, I'm mad ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/mad.gif) about it (how could you tell?)<P>Why would anyone call their daughter's boyfriend that they know is married? Unless they have reason to believe that my H has contact with her still (I know he does but he continues to deny it) Just another nail in the coffin. I can't help it, I let him have it......and why didn't he tell her (the Mom) that he doesn't have any contact with her anymore if that's the case? HMMMMMMMMMM. They should check the town's bars to find her instead of [b]my</B> home.<P>I am sick of this!<BR>
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I have come to believe that all these occurances/situations are like one of those little snow globes. Just when the snow settles, someone picks it up and shakes it. Thus causing all the *&^($# to start floating again. Will it ever settle once and for all? I am having a bad day too, I know that doesn't help, but remain strong, chin up!!!!!!!!
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Man I opened this one and flames shot out of my puter. Un-freaking-believable. You let him have it, what was his response? <P>Calm down? (cowering in fear, don't hit me) Ugh I don't even know what I would do if that happened to me. Course OM's family doesn't know about them yet so it wouldn't happen. Vent away, preferably here, but I can't blame you for giving it to him. I am so sorry for what is going on with you and your H.<P>------------------<BR>Allen<BR>sparky_dog_mb@yahoo.com
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RC<P>Where have you been, I haven't seen you around?? I was thinking about you the other day.<P>The NERVE, THE UNBELIEVABLE NERVE. At the moment I am in, I would have said GOOD she deserves it. <P>What kind of mom would want to see her daughter in that kind of predicament, could you be proud, could you be hopeful of a nice family for her? NO WAY. OW M in my case, thinks my H is the greatest guy in the world. HELLO HE LEFT HIS WIFE AND KIDS ON XMAS> HE SERVED HIS WIFE WITH D PAPERS ON VALENTINES DAY. What makes her think her daughter is so special. <P>The same with your OW in your case. That mother is as loony as the OW. Not sure on your latest developments, been having a lot of problems, is your H living at home? <P>Curious to see what happened when you blasted him, !!!<P>Prayers are with you, Dana<BR>
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No real update ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/frown.gif) <P>His response? He doesn't know why her Mom called.....he doesn't know how to contact her.....if her Mom couldn't he wouldn't be able to either. Except that she keeps leaving him voice mail (I know cuz I'm a snoop, remember?)<P>lonleymom - exactly what I thought. What kind of Mother would be comfortable with a situation in which her daughter keeps in contact with a married man? Not mine, not H's - but then they believe in the difference between right and wrong. Maybe the OW's Mom hasn't ever known the difference either so how could the daughter learn it? Yes, H is still living here. It is very difficult. If <B>it</B> is what he wants he is welcome to it, just be honest.<P><BR>Oh vent, vent, vent. <p>[This message has been edited by RCoaster (edited February 26, 2000).]
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