Opened H's Gas card bill today.......guess what I found out???????????Gee, another lie!!<P>Why am I continuing to live with this, I must be reeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaallllllllllyyyyyyy<BR>stupid!!!!!!!!<P>I knew something was going on last month with all the charges, but this one nailed him. He was out of town for a week and there were multiple charges on it.......guess who has the card???????That's right, <B>THE BIMBY</B>. Gee, she's abusing the card, obviously putting gas into more than just her own car. Unbelievable!<BR>Yeah, right. H is going to <B>talk</B> with her......uh-huh. He won't even put a stop on the card------he's just going to 'trust' her.<P>I'm so angry I can't type anymore. And worse than my anger at him is my anger at myself!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so sorry! That is all I can say! I just know that angry feeling and it is awful when you feel like you can't do anything about it. Or worse yet, it is awful when your spouse won't even do anything to make you feel better! In fact, they tend to just make you feel worse! Take care and I feel for you right now!<P>~Woozy

Claire,<P>I'm sorry hon, I really don't have any advice, because myself I would LB big time! I think I would cancel the gas card.(But that's me and my temper talking!)<P>Take care of you and do what you need to.<P>Prayers,<BR>Mitzi

{{{{{{{{{{<B>RCoaster</B>}}}}}}}}}},<P>I'm so sorry,<P>I've been there... $500+ phone bill... $300+ ISP charges... 2 concert tickets on my credit card... and it goes on...<P>There is very little I can say to calm you down... <BR>...but I suggest some really phusical activity to help get it out of your system... at least for a while.<P>Prayers are coming your way tonight! <P>Jim<p>[This message has been edited by NSR (edited February 26, 2000).]

I'm really headed for the 'Big D, and don't mean Dallas' as the song says. I can't allow this anymore!! I think it is ultimatum time and this time <B>I will stick to my decision</B><P>He has used me as his doormat and financial backer enough. I have enabled this, I know, and that fact doesn't make it any easier to face myself in the mirror come morning. I'm crying, but oddly calm. At least it won't be me having to move out of the house since it belongs to my family - one ray of sunshine in an otherwise bleak outlook right now. Enough I say - <B>out, out, damn spot!</B>and I'm not talking about a dog either (well at least not literally).<P>Jim -<P>add me to the list of those welcoming you back. I'm so glad that you are okay. And how wonderful to find that you have raised such caring, loving and with-it kids. I need all the prayers I can get. Anger doesn't even cover what I feel right now.<P>Mitzi -<P>Oh, LB'd <B>all over the place!!!</B>but right now I do NOT care. sorry for shouting.<BR>I would put a stop on the card but I am not on it. <P>Which brings me to another question.....I believe that I could be held responsible for any unpaid charges in the event that something happens to H. Right? Even though I am not on the card - but am married to this jerk.<p>[This message has been edited by RCoaster (edited February 26, 2000).]

Rcoaster,<P>Thank God the house is yours! My house is our house and I get to move thanks to the fact that my husband decided to move in with his ow. I can't afford to keep the house on my own. <P>Take care of yourself!<P>~Woozy