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Mitzi,<BR>I feel like I know you so well. Although I did not expierence the physical violence to that extreme....I know how it feels to still love someone who does that. I know how it feels to feel used, old, unloved, but loved. It is so weird. I begged and begged my H to come home. I thought it would be better to walk on egg shells all the time than to be alone and I always held out hope he would be the person he used to be. I am on the board of Domestic Violence in my county. I feel so close to you....understand how you felt/feel and know the confusion it causes.<P>E-mail me sometime if you need to talk<BR>Kenizanasshl@aol.com<BR>Nancy
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Nancy,<BR>It is an awful feeling when you love someone so much that you are willing to sacrifice your whole being to prove that love. <P>You would not believe the feeling of freedom I have since I made an appointment with a lawyer. I can't walk on eggshells anymore. I did that for too long and up until last week, was willing to do it some more. <P>God, this place is almost as good as therapy!!<P>Thanks for the support!<BR>Mitzi
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Mitzi,<P>I'm sorry your situation was what it was... but so very glad you have found the strength inside yourself to move on. I won't re-post all the good advice, you have found the light.<P>Keep moving forward! We are all here for you. <P>{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{MITZI}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}<P>Love, Thoughts & Prayers,<BR>Butterfly<P>------------------<BR>There are deep sorrows and killing cares in life, but the encouragement and love of friends were given us to make all difficulties bearable. <BR>-- John Oliver Holmes<P>The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.<BR>-- Elie Wiesel<P><BR>
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Butterfly,<BR>Thanks and yeah, it's getting better everyday!!<P>Mitzi
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