Hi Nancy,<P>I have no idea what the comment is/was that you are referring to. I hope to God it wasn;t one of mine. I don't think it would be, I always try to see both sides.<P>I also don't know your story very well, however, my thoughts and [rayers are with you and your children. <P>I agree with what everyone else has said, about your H, and what stunt he is trying to pull.<P>Be strong. Think of your beautiful children. They will get you through this - whatever the outcome.<P>Please don't leave us here. We all need each other, and you are a part of that.<P>love and hugs to you<P>Jo

Bonnet,<BR>I have no intention to leave this place just yet. They will have to rip my fingers off this keyboard and they will need to bring in reinforcement. It was a statement made on my other post. You have not offended me. Not many people do. I respect the fact that people have their own opinions.<BR>Nancy

Mental: Whoever said you are a bad mother is absolutely wrong! Unfortunatly things can be misconstrued or observed that can put you in a bad position. What are the allegations that are holding up the custody? If it is abuse and you are innocent then fight it. Whatever it is, if it is unfounded, then pursue it.If there is something to the allegations then deal with it and try to go on with the custody war. I don't think anyone was saying that you were a bad mother.. but whatever is going on, you need to put suspicions to rest so everyone can get a clear picture.

Cam,<BR>The only reason things become misconstrued is from a deceptive stbx. You did offend me with your comments. The court systems suck....they leave children in harms way and they rip them from the arms of a loving and caring parent. For the courts to give children to a parent who has not been a part of their lives for so long and see reports that claim he is angry and needs to learn how to discipline his children in a non-violent way tells me so much. The GAL said this and then claims they need to be with him because he has bought them a barbie and taken them to a Pacers game. You do NOT know what I have been through and the courts could care less too. These children have been forced to go with an abusive man and have been forced to have their FATHER abuse them everyother weekend and once a week. <P><BR>I posted on the other one also to you<BR>Read that one too please<BR>Nancy

Mental, just checking back to see if you are feeling any better?? I hope so. My prayers are with you today. Dana<BR>

Dana,<BR>Thank you for your concern. I am doing fine today. Our 7 year old has been sick with lower respitory infection for the last 3 days. I feel like I could use about a week of sleep.<P>I feel like I am being revictimized by someone on this board over and over again. It is like my H is posting or his OW is.<P>But thanks for your concern.<BR>Nancy

Things seem to be just getting more and more out of control with the crap he is doing. When will it all stop?