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I had a bad morning. H got drunk last night and ended up falling asleep on the couch. We had a nice day yesterday although there were no I love yous or kisses like we have had in the past. I got nervous. This morning I went to his truck and checked his cell phone...i got caught. He was greatly upset with me. But as I was going on and on about why I did it...he looked at me and said he had forgotten about it 30 minutes ago...so he let me go on and on...and basically said ok we move on...(but had decided 30 minutes before)<BR>I am pretty upset with getting caught and for succombing to my suspicions...i just don't trust him and his "turn around" <BR>I so need to feel more secure...and him and I just hanging around isn't doing it for me.
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I feel for you, as I know how hard it is to accept that they are back with you and they have totally left the OW...physically and emotionally. There was a time when H came back for a couple months....at first it was hard. I wanted to check everything. But that faded real fast. It will for you too. You slipped up. Who wouldn't. Remember...we make mistakes too. Maybe ours aren't as earth shattering as theirs....but we mess up too. Just go on...try not to be so snoopy. It is hard. But you will slowly do it.<P>I think that I just got to the point that I will trust again until proven wrong. Well I got proven wrong....but not by snooping.<BR>Nancy
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