Hello<BR>feel like is been a long time.<BR>I have lurked and posted occasionally.<BR>I feel as though i am about to make a major mistake in my life.<BR>I want desperatly to move back in with my husband.<BR>REASON NOT TO<BR>1. he still hasn't taken any type of anger management class. He was upset because i gave the church 35 dollars so he throw and broke an oak chair. <BR>2.I still haven't told him about the affair.<BR>He could find out and instead of throwing a chair throw me unfortunatly he has done it before.<BR>3. Once i give up my apartment it might be impossible to get back in.<BR>REASON TO MOVE HOME<BR>1. easier on the children only one house<BR>2. we will save a whole lot of money and be able to pay off a lot of debt<BR>3. I won't be lonely<BR>4. I can live in my house again with new carpeting and paint. Something I have always wanted.<P><BR>

Please do not go back to an abusive marriage. You are worth much, much more than an oak chair! Your children do not need to see an abusive marriage as their role model for relationships. New carpet and paint do not cover up verbal and physical abuse.<P>Are you getting any counseling or help to re-build YOU? You are a valuable person, a child of God, and DO NOT deserve such treatment!!!<P>Kathi

In your post you mention nothing of having a wonderful loving life with this man. Stay lonely and unabused!!!