Well, my H never mentioned the note he was writting to me and things are less strained between us as we plan for our vacation. I managed to not ask him any questions in the past 3 days. Well any annoying ones anyhow. Sometimes I feel like its a case of ask me no questions and I'll tell you no lies. Is that where that saying came from?<BR> So we are leaving tomorrow for vacation and I am ready to be fun, relaxed and loving. I only hope I can do it without my advisors here. Will let you all know how it goes. <BR> Lora