Small towns suck!!! The rumor mill is just working overtime!! <P>I'm thinking about moving. Possibly a zillion miles away! I can't stand living here with all of this constantly being thrown in my face. I'm back to the throwing up and not being able to eat. <P>My life is back to where it was on D-Day!!!!!

Well here i am again. Did i mention that i live in unstableville? The weather here today was sooo weird. I am so ready for spring. unfortunately i live in colorado and the weather is: Winter: Blistered summer. period.<P>

Mitzi,<BR> What town do you live in?If you'd rather not post it,that's OK.I've never been in that neck of the woods,what's it like there?A couple I know want to move back to PA when they retire.They said it was real nice.I have a large map of the US above my computer.Maybe I should stick pins in it,showing where everybody lives.Wouldn't that make for a interesting travel intinery?<BR> --Murph

Murph,<P>Hell, if I don't mind using my real name, I don't mind telling where I live. (Mitzi is my real name). <P>I live in a small town in the eastern part of the state, Keyser. It's pronounced Kiser. It's great here. In my area it's mostly rural farmland. I live about 7 miles outside Keyser's city limits. We used to have mild summers and bad winters but for the past few years it's been extremely hot in the summer and unusually mild in the winter. The only problem is there's not much for kids to do. They have the usual things like Little League and school sports but not much extra. <P>I grew up on a 300 acre farm and got some of the land to build a house on. My kids do a lot of the same things I did when I was a kid. Playing in the creek on my dad's land, playing in the woods, helping my dad make hay and take care of the animals. I'm glad we live here. It might help keep my kids out of trouble when they get older. <P>BTW, my 10 year old is a mean baseball player. Excellent 1st baseman. And a true home run hitter. "The Natural"<BR>(yes, I'm bragging!!)

Too Trusting,<P>My God, are our husbands clones? I feel so hopeless tonight! I want to believe he is thinking things through but I think that must be a little hard when he is with his trailer trash bimbo! <P><BR>To top it all off, my husband has been nice to me everytime I have seen him. Oh, and he called me today. I asked him what he wanted and he said he didn't know. I asked him if he missed me and he said yeah. Then he told me it is snowing. We talked for 20 minutes. I have a thread about it. I still don't know where his head is at. I may have confused him more than his little head can take when I told him I wasn't going to file for divorce. I think it will do him good to get a nice dose of reality for a change! I for one am sick to death of reality!<P>Too Trusting, cheers to us and here's hoping that our h's come out of their foggy states soon!<P>Woozy <p>[This message has been edited by woozy (edited March 19, 2000).]

Hey Mitzi,<P>I took my girls to a BSB concert last Sept. and it was great! If you ever get the chance to take your boys I'm sure they would have a great time. They put on one heck of a show. Of course we had fantastic seats about 15 ft. from the stage so I guess that helped. <P>mercy,<P>Go out and buy BSB's Millennium. Just watch out for the last song its a real tear jerker. It's called "Perfect Fan" and its a song dedicated to their moms. When they sang this song in concert I looked down at my older daughter and the tears were just rolling down her cheeks and we held on to each other through the whole song. Talk about a song to make you bond with your child! <P>Have you ever listened to Mark Wills, he's another good country artist. I just figured I mention it because you named a few of my favs.<P>falsely accused

f. Accused:<P>Absolutely! I love mark wills music. You know i got to see ty herndon in concert! He was wonderful!! He is as good in concert as on CD. Then guess what? I met him at a local loaf n jug at 11:45pm after the concert. TAlk about GOOD LOOKING!!!!! AND what a nice man! Anyhow, i really enjoyed myself.<P>I go to water aerobics and i have heard the BSB Millineum CD. I really like it. I try to be a cool mom by listening to the same music as the kids but some of it i just don't like ! <P>I think the rollar coaster is taking on new passengers. my H. NOt good.

mercy,<P>Sounds like you really did enjoy yourself with the concert and then running into him!! Wow! That must have really shocked you. <P>I know how you feel about some of thier music. My daughter and I have similar taste in music(I'm just very open minded when it comes to music), but when it comes to Korn or Limp Buscit(sp?) and things along those lines I tell her in your room! Some of their songs aren't to bad but the majority is just screaming. <P>Sorry to hear your H is possibly joining the rollercoaster. I have no clue as to what's going on in my life right now. I figured I would keep myself busy with painting the inside of my house. Just finished all the caulking and spackling to prepare for the painting tomorrow. <P>I'm on break right now! <P>falsely accused<BR>

Hey f-accused...does your D listen to other "new rock" like Creed?? I love them and have seen them in concert. The lyrics of their music are sometimes pretty deep compared to Korn, Limp Biskit, etc...I'm 44 and one of the guys that works for me swears I've entered my teenage years for the second time...<P>--DeWayne--

DeWayne,<P>Yes I believe thats one of the other ones shes listens to. Like I said I'm open to a lot of different music and so is she. The other day she borrowed my West Side Story soundtrack CD so I figure if she's listening to my music I'll listen to hers! <P>My H says the same thing about me and I'm almost 39(actually I don't want to think about that birthday coming up, scarey!!). <BR>He's stuck back in the day when we were younger(he's 42). I still listen to a lot of that music too but I'm always looking for something new.<P>falsely accused

F. Accused:<P>I could not with a good consience allow my children to listen to Korn. They are sooo bad! But i don't really want to debate music. I love music. good music.<P>My H just informed me(last night) that because he doesn't know me and he doesn't know how much he can take of this upside down mess. He wants the woman back that he fell in love with. I am not sure where that woman went. He says he wasn't givning me an ultimatum(sp) but ifeel like he was saying get over it or i will

mercy<P>No debating music from me either. However I do want to say when I was not allowing her to listen to Korn and such she was listening to it in school(her friends would bring the CD's there for her to hear). Now that I allow some of it I find her NOT listening to it as much. I think it was more of a rebellion thing that she is now getting over. But then again thats high school kids for ya!<P>Sorry to hear what you are going through this weekend. As I said before I have no clue as to whats happening here. I feel a little lost this weekend and my H is being very distant yet again. I just don't know what to think anymore. I'm so tired of meeting all his needs and not having any of mine met. <P>Oh well, break time is over back to preparing for my house painting tomorrow.<P>falsely accused<P>