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Early Saturday morning my father in law had what we thought was a very light heart attack. Today they ran tests and we have found out it is alot more serious then thought. He is going to have to have a triple bipass. <P> He is 77 years old and until recently has been in fairly good health. However the stress of this year with my son having a transplant and his son leaving me with for the OW has really broken him down. He is one of those that keep everything bottled inside. <P>We need lots of prayers.<P>I had to call H to tell him what is going on. I think I woke him up at least I hope so because if I did he was not sleeping with the OW. Of course it could be because her kids are there and one of them sleeps with her. THat is still good. ANyway I told him about the surgery we talked about how I could get a hold of him if we didn't find out the time till after he went to work. I told him I could come after him if he needed a ride. He seem to think that was a good idea. When We got ready to say good bye I of course told him I love you, then time he laughed and said I love you too! This was no accident no slip. So maybe a silver lining in every dark cloud.<P>But still need your paryers will keep you posted. Thanks.<P>------------------<BR>di<P>

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Your on-line order for prayers has been received and is currently being processed. <P>Your prayers will be delivered immediately.<P>Thank you for your order [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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I'm so sorry to hear about your FIL. Another prayer has been processed.<P>

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SDS,<P>More prayers coming your way for your FIL! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Mitzi

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SDS,<P>Prayers coming for your FIL and continued prayers for the healing of your marriage.<P>This "I love you too!" is indeed a silver lining to all of this. God works in mysterious ways. Could be this is one of them.<P>Will light candle for the two causes too. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>One more thing I copied and pasted your post to e-mail to forward to a prayer line that forwards out to prayer warriors. I hope you don't mind. Keep us updated okay?<P>------------------<BR><B>God bless you and all of us. We are all going to make it, all of us! laugh With God on our side we can't lose! wink What God has joined together let no man put asunder. <P>Samantha</B>

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Thank you for the prayers.<P>Samantha. Thanks for the candles and for sending the request out. I don't mind at all the more the better is my way of thinking.<P>I will keep you posted. I don't think I would have survived this year if it hadn't been for the kindness of everyone here.<P>Thanks.<P>------------------<BR>di<P>

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Hey Di,<P>I'm here, too. There is one for all three of you.<P>Tim

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Di,<P>My prayers are for you and your whole family. I hope and pray things go well for all.<P>J Willy

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Di,<BR>I got the message earlier today. He is always there and He is always there on time. I said a prayer the moment I got the message. He konws what is best. Rest in Him.<P>------------------<BR><B><I>God Bless,<BR>Rob</I></B><BR> regilmor@swbell.net

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I'll keep you & your family in my prayers....

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A short update. Surgery will be at 8 in the morning. Could be a triple or quadruple bypass plus his miorta value is maybe damage they could either repair or replace it. Won't know for sure until they are in there.<P>H will be driving to the hospital in the morning. I am worried about him too. It is atwo hour drive and he works till 1 AM to night plus he has a paper route to deliver before he comes. I worry about him staying a wake.<P>After talking to him this morning I talked to him again as soon as we found out that FIL was to have surgery in the moring. She was there so he was very guarded and distant and cold sounding. Tonight I called him at work. Couldn't talk very long but again when I said I love you he responded with I love you. <P>Not only am I worried about FIL but I haven't really been with H for any length of time. I have butterflies already. <P>Thank you all for including us in your prayers. I greatly apprecated. I am so tired I can't see to type. <P>I will keep you updated and again thanks a million for the prayers.<P>------------------<BR>di<P>

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Di...<P>You, your FIL and your H all have my prayers... [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>I will stop at 8... and say another prayer too!<P> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Jim

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Thanks everyone. On way to hospital.<P>------------------<BR>di<P>


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