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Read my story at:<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum28/HTML/001588.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum28/HTML/001588.html</A> <P>and even..<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum28/HTML/001731.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum28/HTML/001731.html</A> <P>We've been going to counselling 3 times, but before each lesson my wife has said that it's no use "we want different things" etc etc. Our counselling is very passive and neutral where a lady sits and listens to us and only occasionally interupts to say anything. There seems to be no progress and I always end up being depressed for 2-3 days after each lesson. So after taking advice from my doctor and this forum I decided to end the lessons. I have talked to the counseller and she said I should discuss this better with my wife first (but she's been saying all along that it doesn't work and that she doesn't see the point). The way I see it is that we should either split or start therapy (which means she would have to start distancing heself from the OM). Well, I called her at work to tell her if she would mind if I cancelled tomorrows appointment since I don't see any progress and we end up depressed etc. Her response was "well" (or something to that effect - hesitating). She said she would call me back after a meeting today to discuss this further.<P>What can I read into this? Any clues?
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