{{{{{{{{{{{{Dylan}}}}}}}}}}}}<P>I just had to let you know how much you did for me today.<BR>Your kind words helped lift me out of a very big hole. <P>Thank you, thank you, thank you......<P>Yesterday I went to my first counseling session with a new counselor. H had said he would start going with me. Looks like that won't happen.<P>He decided that we needed to talk at home if I thought we could do it in front of a "perfect stranger"<BR>I think he feels better today. I felt like crap. I was feeling very much like a failure today. When I read your kind, kind words I felt like maybe I wasn't so worthless after all.<P>I just had to give you a big thank you because it was so important to me. You are my angel for the day!!!!!<P> [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif[/img] [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif[/img]<p>[This message has been edited by wasstubborn (edited March 30, 2000).]

Dylan<BR>I don't know if you saw this so I'm bringing it back to the top. It is very important to me that you know how helpful you were yesterday.<P>I have a question too.<BR>How does one type in French with the appropriate accents? I've always wondered as there have been times that I wanted to but didn't know where to start. I'm a little computer illiterate in some areas.

Hi wassy, I usually use word, and you can change the language there, which gives you access to the accents. Usually you have to press control plus a word to get the accent.<BR>It seems complicated at first , but it gets easier as you use it. I use it all the time now, and have no trouble rememebering what to press.<BR>Kat

(((((((((((((WASSI))))))))))))<P>Please do not think I don't care or am ignoring you, rather, my internet was.....sigh...once again, cut off......these people and their all-important money...it's still amazes me that they just cut my service when I don't pay them on time.......LOL<P><BR>I must say that reading your words pretty much made me feel as you said mine did you....<P>did you understand any of that????<P>we quebecers get confused so easily...LOL<P>You have so much worth, wassi, never ever believe that you don't...just look arounf here on this board alone to see how much worth you have...see how much you help...and advise all of us, and how much we need you...<P>you are one of the furthest things from a failure that I have ever seen...<P>you have such tenacity, and spark, and are such a good person at a basic level.....<P>It's just hard to feel like you are giving 120% and receiving less in return.....<P>I don't have much in the form of advice to offer regarding the counseling, I am one of those, "you come with me, or here, let me pack your bags" reactionary people....hence the probs in my marriage....sigh...LOL... <P>I hope you are feeling great today, because you deserve to, and dammit, you are a wonderful human being.....<P>even if you do live in alberta.<P><BR>LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL<P>ps: I never type in french....I am boycotting french....they speak it in too many other countries now, and I feel it lacks a certain 'distinctness'.....it's far too common...LOL.....I am an anglophone (by choice) trapped in a francophone family and province.....sigh.....<P><BR>much love, many blessings....<P>Dylan

Hey Dylan<BR>I knew you would see this eventually. I did get kind of worried when I didn't see any sign of you around.<P>I understood all of that!! Remember I am part French. I understand all kinds of things. I think I understand that the best counselors and shoulders are at this forum so I don't really need one. I have come to terms with H backing out. He likes to have someone else fix everything. <P>I'm glad your back and I think you again for being so kind. I think you are the one with spirit. Maybe it's in the genes? <P>I'm much better than I was. Rough weekend. I've also weaned myself off the meds so I'm a bit strange. <P>Tonight however, my mischievous side came out. H's friend (who is the only real mutual friend with bimbo) called and wanted us to go out to a movie Friday. H is working nights so won't be available. The guy said I could come with him and his wife anyway. I asked if I could bring a date. <BR>I think I'm much better without the meds.<BR>I hardly know these people at all but oh my, I could cause some real trouble. Very innocently of course. I'm sure they don't know about the affair but ........well.....<P>Gotta go. Kid needs the 'puter. You take care and don't disappear again.<BR>

<BR>"Bring a date!!!!" LOLOLOLOL!!!!<P>WS - I love you....especially when your mischievious and "a bit strange"!!<P>I didn't read about H backing out....I'm sorry about that! I'll have to go find that thread....<P>Miss ya and Hugs,<P>Sheba<P>PS - Hi Dylan!!! Those darn companies always wanting money......sheeesh!!!

Wassi!<BR>Hiya! I took a semester in french last year in college and dropped out in the middle, that language makes no sense to me, they use the alphabet for stuff that they don't sound out! <BR>I much more prefer spanish, took 5 years of it in high school and middle and enjoyed it much more! <BR>Anyhow, just thought I'd pop in and tell you I was thinking about you. I would continue with the counselling, even if he isn't bitting yet, he might just get real curious and decide to drop in for awhile! <BR>Take care, know that I'm thinking about you! God Bless!<P>------------------<BR>Chick's <BR>Bren<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!

Sheba<BR>I am really mischievous right now. I have a new name for the bimbo. You know I've never been quite satisfied that "bimbo" was sufficient. On Sat. H was pulling his King Tut act and I decided that since he was King Tut, she was his Bimbo Whore Queen. So from now on she is BWQ!<P>I have all sorts of devious plans. Glad I got rid of those meds. Now I have an excuse for insane behavior. <P>Bren<BR>I won't give you any lectures on how much easier French is than English! But isn't it very similar to Spanish?<P>I'm not sure where I am on the counselor thing. I have another appt. tomorrow and we'll see what happens. If he wants to discuss my issues great. I'm not sure he wants to though. Last week he seemed to prefer his own agenda.<P>You better be taking care of yourself! I want to hear some good news from you.