Hi All,<P>Yes, I know it would be a short ride for me. Not enough time to really get comfy in the seat or to ask a million times "Are we there yet?" "I HAVE TO GO TO THE BATHROOM!"<P>I got a note from Val today.<P>Hello,<P>How are you? Long time no see!!!!!<P>See you soon. Thanks again for the cards. I really like them.<P>Love, Val<P>I will not respond to this, but, the last few days have not been going so well for me. I think of her constantly and the tummy problems have returned. Damn it, it's been over a year since seperation and I though I was over it with the withdrawl of her.<P>Anyone else getting head games from the S after such a long time? I hate her one minute and hope that she slides under a gas truck and tastes her own blood and the next minute I can't live without her.<P>This blows goats!<P>Hope things are going better for you Guys.<P>Anybody see that BonJovi movie on Cinemax regarding an affair? He played the girls like a cheap violin. My partner thought I was nuts for yelling at the TV. <P>The Zipman

Tim...<P>You didn't get your ice cream did you...<BR>How about... Chocolate?...<P>20 Reasons Why Chocolate Is Better Than Sex!!!<P>1. You can GET chocolate. <BR>2. "If you love me you'll swallow that" has real meaning with chocolate. <BR>3. Chocolate satisfies even when it has gone soft. <BR>4. You can safely have chocolate while you are driving. <BR>5. You can make chocolate last as long as you want it to. <BR>6. You can have chocolate even in front of your mother. <BR>7. If you bite the nuts too hard the chocolate won't mind. <BR>8. Two people of the same sex can have chocolate without being called nasty names. <BR>9. The word "commitment" doesn't scare off chocolate. <BR>10. You can have chocolate on top of you workbench/desk during working hours without upsetting your co-workers. <BR>11. You can ask a stranger for chocolate without getting your face slapped. <BR>12. You don't get hairs in your mouth with chocolate. <BR>13. With chocolate there's no need to fake it. <BR>14. Chocolate doesn't make you pregnant. <BR>15. You can have chocolate at any time of the month.. <BR>16. Good chocolate is easy to find. <BR>17. You can have as many kinds of chocolate as you can handle. <BR>18. You are never too young or too old for chocolate. <BR>19. When you have chocolate it does not keep your neighbors awake. <BR>20. With chocolate size doesn't matter.<P>Don't send Val any more cards...<BR>...she also has to get her own chocolate!<P>(I know this isn't like me...<BR>... oh well... on year anniversary of D-day coming up!)<P> <P>Jim

Hi Medic -<P>Stay strong....here's a BIG HUG!!!<P>And I think that you have corrupted our dear NSR.......(good for you!!! LOL)<P>Now Jim...what is this that you are writing.......tut...tut!!!!!<P>BTW - lolololololol!!!! And a ROFLMAO with some of those "snorts" oops!! for #2 and 12!!!!!!!<P>Sorry about D-day Anniversary...I don't have any specific "dates" - the only one I remember is the day he moved out (June 4th) Here's a BIG HUG for you, too!!!<P>Hang in there guys.....we're all gonna make it through this.<P>Sheba<P><BR>

What else can happen? I broke Jim! Now, I feel really feel bad. <P>Does this mean I should start dating a Hershey bar! <P>And Sheba,<P>I think I'm making a connection re # 2 and 12. You must buy your candy from a very dirty 7-11 if there is hair on it. Yuch, you should shop elsewhere. <P>Zip<P>

<P>I think it struck me so funny cuz we used to joke about how there should be pills that would allow such bodily emissions to taste like chocolate!!!! Fit right in there!!!!!<P>You mean there are clean 7-11's?<P>Hugs,<P>Sheba<P>PS -What do you mean you broke?<p>[This message has been edited by Sheba (edited April 06, 2000).]

OH MY NSR!!!!!!! !!<P>way too funny, needed a good laugh!<P>

mercy...<P>every time I reply with any humor(?) ...<BR>you catch me... <P>how come? (LOL)<P> <P>Jim

medic<P>Sorry you are going through this with Val. I seriously doubt she is doing it to you on purpose. Be strong my friend. You have one thing going for you that is priceless, and that is your sense of humor.<P>BLOWS GOATS????????? <P><BR>Its 4:30 in the morning here and I just crawled out of bed for the day, and that statement has me laughing so hard I almost woke up the kids!!!!<P>you and NSR have put a smile on my face this morning that I am sure will last all day!!!<P>THANKS!!! ROTFLMFAO<P>Brent

Lots of hugs for Medic...<P>LOL's for Jim!!!<P>Sheba, I'm with you!!!!!!!!!<P>So sorry, Medic, wish things were better. Hang on.<P>Lori

Well geez Tim, don't you know her sole purpose in life is to make yours living hell?<P>Come On, Get with the Program!!<P>Ignore the letter <P>Cat

Tim,<P>I am sorry for the confusion again with Val. Same thing happens to me, my ex asked if I would make him egg salad today? We haven't spoke in weeks/? <P>Hang in there and take everyone's advice, Lor and Sheba said it perfect. <P>Jim: Thanks for the laughs today <P>Good day to all, Dana<BR>

Hi Guys,<P>I just don't get it. She said nothing about the D. I spoke to the lawyer and she hasn't sent the papers back yet. All it would take is two signatures and 30 days.<P>Hi Brent,<P>I don't think she is trying to hurt me, but, it still does. I guess she is still in major conflict avoider gear.<P>Hey Lori,<P>Thanks for the hugs. I am doing a little better today.<P>Yo Cat,<P>I was getting to that hypothesis. I am not going to acknowledge the letter. I believe that is what she expects. Tim will make a nice card and sent it to me. Not this time honey!<P>Hello Dana,<P>Sure seems that all have the same handbook.<P><BR>Thanks for the responses. Hey, one last time on the roller coaster.<P>Wishing us all the Best.<P>Tim

Avoidant personality disorder. Yup, she's got it.<P>I get it. geez.

hey folks!<P>Its 8:30 and I'm still laughing everytime I think about those poor goats!!!!<BR> [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/grin.gif[/img] [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/grin.gif[/img] [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/grin.gif[/img] [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/grin.gif[/img] [img]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/grin.gif[/img]<P>Brent

Hi Tim:<P>Long time no type! <P>This umm "partner" with whom you watched the BonJovi movie with - what's her name? Does it start with an Mmmmm? <P>Sorry to hear that Val's still getting your goat, so to speak. <P>Peace<P>