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If you read my other posts you'll see my H has been having an affair with OW from abroad since Sept/99.... I believe he hasn't seen her since Oct/99(but what do I know !!)<BR>I know they still have phone/letter/card contact. Here is my question.<P>He states that his heart isn't in the right place... that if he is with me intimately, its just a physical thing....should I initiate intimaacy... or wait for him.... I know he is a physical person... likes to be hugged etc..... I just don't know what to do.....help...s
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I do not know if you want you H or not> Hopefully you have made up your mind to try to save the marriage. If so I would do a plan A on his Emotional Needs. Sounds like intamacy is a strong one and it is of no surprise. I would initiate affection in all forms as much as he would let you. Don't be obvious or fake. I would also try to find out his other ENs and do what you can in those areas. Affection (sex) is number one on many men's list and I think you could do some good Plan A Love Depositing.<P>My hopes and prayers are with you!!<P><BR>J W<BR>
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