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YESSSSSSS!!!! He moved all his things back home on Friday while I was at work! When I got home, he already had his wedding ring back on his finger. My heart melted at the sight of that!<P>He made the boys supper and made sure my youngest had taken a bath as he was in a talent show on Friday night. We all went to the talent show and really enjoyed it. Our son did a wonderful job. He and his best friend told cafeteria jokes. They were so cute.<P>Today, we got a baby sitter and we went to talk to the supervisor where he is hoping to get a job. I thought he had it already but they go through a long interview process. Anyway, the supervisor likes to meet the wives to see how they feel about the job. They want to make sure we are supportive. Well, I think I am as supportive a wife as any. I think the visit went well. I hope it did. My husband has already decided he isn't going back to his other job no matter what.<P>When we were done with the interview, I asked my husband if he left a note for the other woman. He said he did and I asked him what he said in it. He told me that he told her he missed his family and that everytime he left us after visiting, he felt like he was abandoning us all over again. He got sad when he told me that. <P>He has been so happy since he has been here. He is like his old self again. He hugs me all the time. He is the man I knew before the affair! He is back!<P>We went out shopping today. My son's birthday was yesterday so he had money he wanted to spend. My birthday is exactly one week after my sons. Well, I wanted to look at Select Comfort air beds. We went and tested them out and I went ahead and filled out an application for credit with them. Well, we were qualified, so we got one. My husband told me that is my birthday present. You see, I have wanted one for over a year now! I am so excited! He told me I deserve it after what he has put me through. He said that we have to fix it somehow so that his side of the bed is still our crappy old bed. He has a lot of guilt over what he has done.<P>For some reason unbeknownst to me, I feel bad for the other woman. I know what she must be going through. My husband could tell that I was feeling guilty about it and he told me not too. He said he felt guilty enough about everything.<P>At some point today, I remembered that I had given him one of my cheesecake pans. He forgot it at her place. I reminded him about it and he said he wasn't going back to get it. That was cool. It was almost like the thought of it made him sick. I told him not to worry about it. I gave him the crappy one anyway. No big deal...<P>So, things are going well so far. We haven't heard a thing from the other woman yet. I don't know if that is good or bad. I guess we will have to wait and see. I hope she doesn't bother him or us.<P>Anyway, it is late and we are up and goofing around on our computers. BUT, I think I need to try and get a good nights sleep!<P>I intend to keep on praying for us. We are pretty excited about our future together right now and I have been making sure he knows we are glad he is here.<P>Good night!<P>Woozy<P>
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I share your joy!!!!!!!!!!<P> ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>PTL<P>Lord, please surround this marriage with a hedge of protection, and let the healing begin, IJN!! Amen
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woozy,<P>You are a true inspiration to all here, and solid proof that we can put our families back together after going through He**.<P>Be happy, be excited, breath a momentary sigh of relief - sounds like you're squarely on the road to recovery. Now get your tail over to the recovery board. You've still got work to do there - although this is truly a happy time, it's no time at all to forget that much work is yet to be done. Some of the remaining work can be just as frustrating and scary as what you've already gone through - just remember as you go through it that you ARE on the right road, and that's all that matters now.<P>As I told my wife, there are lots of potholes on the recovery road, and there will be times when you will want to turn around and get off, but all you have to do is step on the path and lock all other doors behing you. Soon enough, the potholes will become less and less, until one day we'll only see the sun and will not worry about potholes reappearing so much.<P>Congrats,<BR>SamH
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Woozy,<BR>I have never posted to you, but I have been following your story since I came on here a few months ago.<P>I have been so excited for you ever since it started to look like your husband might be returning to his family.<P>As I read your post I cried. I am so happy for you. <P>I hope he knows what a lucky man he is and tells you every day of your future lives together.<P>May God bless you both.<P>Lou Ann<BR>
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Woozy, <BR>I was happy to read such wonderful news. I wish you the best of luck into the future. I am sure that many wonderful times lay ahead for you and your "finally together again" family. nancy
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Woozy:<P>I can't tell you how happy it made me to read your post!!<P>Best of everything to you--and thanks for letting us all know that things can go RIGHT for us all as well!!!<P>--HBC
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Alright,Woozy!<BR> Maybe you can finally get off this board,and go live your life again.Hope to see you on the Recovery board.Good Luck on your marriage. --Murph
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Woozy, I wish I knew how to put a smile icon on this because that is how I feel.<P>Get on the recovery forum.....I will be following your story there. I hope that I will be following you!!!!!!!
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Hey Woozy, <BR> I have been thinking of you all weekend wondering how things were going with you. It sounds like things are going very well for you. <BR>About those feelings of feeling bad for OW I had those too, but never will I have them again. Your H belongs with you and she knew what she was getting into assuming that she knew he was married.<P>I wish both of you lots of luck.
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Woozy<P>I am so happy for you!!! When I read your post I cried with tears of joy and tears of anticipation. I hope all on this site turns out as yours have. You still have some work so good luck with that and my thougts and prayers are with you and your family.<P><BR>J W<BR>
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I am so happy for you!!!
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Thank you for all the replies <P>Things are going great so far! We haven't heard anything from the ow yet. I am hoping she contacted her husband and that he is helping her through this. My h and I kind of think she knew it was coming. So, hopefully she doesn't go the way of "Fatal Attraction" and give us a bad time!<P>I am so happy right now <P>Thanks again for all the replies! You are all the best and everyone of you has helped me through some really rough times! This place is a blessing. <P>I can't wait to see some more success stories here!!! I hope mine keeps going the way it has been. <P>My h is really proud of me I think... For how strong and tough I have been through all of this. <P>Well, off to work! YUCK!<P>Woozy
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