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I made a mistake
#862793 04/22/00 02:05 AM
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H spends all his free time talking to OW on the internet.<P>I asked him if he would see amovie with me this weekend . He said "WE will see". I interpreted this as no.<P>I told him just tell me if you dont want to.I became angry, I didnt yell,but I told him he wasnt meeting my needs.What needs arent I meeting H says.(I didnt reply to him,but he isnt meeting them at all,he is involved with OW.<P>Iam on plan A,this is not about my needs!<P>H left for work,not in the best mood.Now I have to deal with my LBing,I wish my anger had not gotten in the way.I just wanted to spend some time with him.He spends all his time talking to OW,if I am home he goes to sleep,if OW is online he will miss sleep to talk to her.beth<BR>
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#862794 04/22/00 06:27 AM
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I think you can turn this LB into something much better by apologizing and doing something from your Plan A like a love note or poem or small gift that he likes. Think how you can turn it back to depositing a love unit so that the two cancel each other.<P>Don't give up do something from Plan A!!!<P>We all LB...the trick is to not do it often and when we do it make it right again right away.<P>Love and prayers<P>J W
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#862795 04/22/00 08:29 AM
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Beth,<P> We Have twin Husbands!LOL Mine says I don't care, when asked to do anything so I just make plans for something he would have liked in the past and we go do it. Don't expect his enthusiastic cooperation with anything at this point and you won't be so dissapointed.<P> Mine uses the sleep mode too. If I am home he sleeps in til noon and leaves for work at 1:30. On his days off he sleeps in too. But on the days I work I see he was up at 8 to call OW a few times before he swithched to phone cards.<P> Hang in there.<BR> Lora<BR>

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