Just wanted to express that although the affair I found out about my W with OM is only a week old but today, on Easter, I have found a little peace today, and my wife has ended her affair with OM and I want her back in my life again. God has given me some peace today for the first time, and though I still have tremendous pain inside, I thank God and thank all of you for the support I have grown to need and love.<BR>I used to go to the sports section or to games etc when I first logged on to Internet, but now I spend much much more of my time where I have felt loved and this now is the first place I come to. I thank God for what he is doing in my own life and in my marriage, for without him I, rather WE, would have no chance for survival. I know I have a long road to go before complete healing and rebuilding but I have survived week one and my wife is again with me. Praise God for this. I hope peace to all of you, for without God directing me to this site, I do not know where I would be today. Thank you all. May you all find a little peace also this Easter day. I love you all.<P>------------------<BR>Extremely Painful Dying Soul in TN

Hi Bartokk and Welcome....<P>I am so happy for you and your wife!!<P>Happy Easter!! It is truly a Resurrection Day in more ways than one, huh? Praise Be....<P>I am glad that you have found MB, please make sure to read Dr Harley's material and that you and your wife benefit from the knowledge and growth that is offered.<P>You are both starting with a second chance for your marriage "life"...<BR>and considering the day - make it one to coincide with Jesus' destination. It can truly be "Heaven" for you both!!!!<P>Look forward to hearing more from you - and maybe even your wife!!!!<P>HUGS, PRAYERS & STRENGTH,<P>Sheba<p>[This message has been edited by Sheba (edited April 23, 2000).]

Bartokk:<BR> Glad to see things are a little better, I posted to you on another thread (which I can't find now ), and said you shpould read the Plan A 101 post, and that I'd find it for you. Below is NSR's notable posts link...it has some goodies, but esp read Plan A 101...even if your wife has goven up the OM, Plan A is still a good plan to follow!!!<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000013.html" TARGET=_blank>www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000013.html</A> <BR>Hang in there!<BR>Kathi

Yes, Kam, and I appreciated it much. We have already read one of the books listed and ordered 3 more this weekend and we both still know we have a long road ahead but like I said before, there were a couple hours today that I had some inner peace about what Gods plan was for me and W, and I have to put faith in him and him alone. It has been a very tough week and I know I have more to follow, but getting my wife to read everyones kind thoughts, she became a memeber this morning and wishes to find the same peace. Thank you all for starting this painful but necessary healing.

HI Bartokk,<P>Iam so glad that you have found a little peace on this Easter Day.THis site has been a life saver for me too.My prayers to you and your W.bethn