Well, I have not been talking to H too much this week - ever since he allowed OW to spend part of the day with him and our D last Sunday. This week he has been making the calls to me. He'll ask to talk to our D but that takes 2 minutes. Then I will talk to him and start to stay goodbye but he stays on the phone so we talk. He's been calling for some pretty weak reasons. It would take about 2 seconds to answer him and then we talk for at least 15-20 minutes at a time. Today he called yet again for a pretty lame reason. I was especially nice and had a very positive attitude. Showed my genuine concern and caring for him. He asked what my plans were for tonight and I reminded him that I was going out. He asked if I was going on a date. I said no and asked him if that would bother him if I did. He said no but changed the subject very quickly. He commented on the fact that I seemed to have better self-esteem. I said yes. I'm getting the feeling he may have been a little jealous. Not sure, though. I am plan Aing like crazy as well as showing him an incredibly positive and self-confident attitude! I am hoping that everything is working. Only time will tell!!<BR> <P><P>------------------<BR>Molli

Good job Molli! My H got very worried when I acted like I was not going to mope around.I continued to plan A my heart out,but appeared self assured and capable of going on with my life. It's a good thing for them to wonder. Good luck!

Just a quick GREAT JOB... KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!! GOOD LUCK AND PRAYERS FRANK<P>------------------<BR>desperate<BR>"If yesterday didn't stop today, Why should TODAY stop tomorrow??" <BR>"Wisdom is why!!"<P>