Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum

This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at mbrestored@gmail.com
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
#865220 05/01/00 02:01 PM
Joined: Aug 1999
Posts: 30
L
Latrice Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
L
Joined: Aug 1999
Posts: 30
I just want to know what could a spouse possibly be out doing at 6:30 AM! The only thing open at that time are legs...Could anyone rationalize this too me..My husband thinks he did nothing wrong. Says he fell asleep at a get together and because he did nothing wrong. He shouldn't have to apologize. I could of ripped his tongue out with all the strength I could muster. I find it very hard to be nice and sweet and loving to someone slapping me in the face with disrespect. Please help.

Joined: Mar 2000
Posts: 661
H
Member
Offline
Member
H
Joined: Mar 2000
Posts: 661
Do you really want a rationalization?<P>If I were you I would accept the answer from him and then try to find out the truth. It is possible that his story is true....<P>All the best. --HBC<P>----------<BR>Trust But Verify

Joined: Aug 1999
Posts: 30
L
Latrice Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
L
Joined: Aug 1999
Posts: 30
I guess your right.. I really don't need a rationalization. I found another womans number (yes I snooped..)and a niece of mine heard him say before he went out that he wasn't getting in until after 5:30 a.m. So there are my answers right there.. I am so out of there.. I really have a history of things like this with him.. This is just the straw that broke the camels back. I am pregnant and can't take the chance of catching an STD or even Aids.. because he doesn't practice safe sex..and I have caught something from him before. But, thanks for your response..I feel much stronger with my choice. I have lots of family and friends supporting me.

Joined: May 2000
Posts: 1
M
Junior Member
Offline
Junior Member
M
Joined: May 2000
Posts: 1
latrice, i'm going through something similar right now. I just found out I was pregnant 2 months ago. Now, I think I have an STD (from my cheating husband). If you don't mind, what kind of STD did you have? Do you which one would be dangerous for the baby? I am so scared. Any help would be appreciated.

Joined: May 2000
Posts: 747
P
Member
Offline
Member
P
Joined: May 2000
Posts: 747
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Latrice:<BR><B>I just want to know what could a spouse possibly be out doing at 6:30 AM! ...My husband thinks he did nothing wrong. Says he fell asleep at a get together and because he did nothing wrong. He shouldn't have to apologize. </B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Sounds like the excuses I used to use when I was a teenager and hanging out long after I was supposed to be safely home! I don't believe him. I agree with you. The only thing open at that time of morning are legs. The fact that he is so unrepentant makes me suspect him even more.


Moderated by  Fordude 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Forum Search
Who's Online Now
0 members (), 960 guests, and 70 robots.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
sonali pawar, Carter Whitaker, Pogre, katharine369, Open Leaf
71,977 Registered Users
Latest Posts
Advice pls
by Open Leaf - 05/21/25 12:59 PM
I didn’t have a chance
by Open Leaf - 05/20/25 07:15 AM
My spouse is becoming religious
by Open Leaf - 05/16/25 12:57 PM
Roller Coaster Ride
by BrainHurts - 05/15/25 10:29 AM
Lack of sex - anyway to fix it?
by Open Leaf - 05/13/25 10:42 AM
Question for those who have done coaching
by Open Leaf - 05/09/25 12:45 PM
Forum Statistics
Forums67
Topics133,623
Posts2,323,503
Members71,977
Most Online3,224
May 9th, 2025
Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
Copyright © 2025, Marriage Builders, Inc. All Rights Reserved.
Site Navigation
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5