Would the men out there who have been 100% faithful physically to their wives please post this information? My husband believes all men are unfaithful to their wives sometime during their marriages. He says he doesn't know a single married man that hasn't cheated on his wife. He's from India so that also may have something to do with it.

<BR>I'm proud to say that I've been 100% physically and emotionally faithful to my wife throughout our 19 year marriage.<P>

I had an EA some 18 years ago so I cannot stand up and be counted. I did read something to the effect that 3 out 5 men are unfaithful in the first 5 years. You should also realize that 2 out of 5 women are unfaithful in the first 5 years.<P>Regardless it does not make it right. I found out what I did 18 years ago just hurt everyone involved including myself. I believe that a unfaithful spouse is the worse and most cruel thing that could happen to the other S with the possible exception of a child dying. Even that has certain and reasonably short closure while an affair can and often does go on for years.<P>J W

Hi Peace lover<P>All men don't cheat, my h isn't part of this site but i can tell you that he has been faithful during our marriage, i was the *bad* one, it hurt him, promised not to do it again and i'm trying my hardest not to do it again, but he's not making it easy either.<BR>i'm usually on the EN side.<P>mrb<p>[This message has been edited by MrsRaBull (edited May 03, 2000).]

PL,<BR> Well,your H knows one now.I never even thought of cheating on my W of 22 years.Not that the opportunity didn't arise,I just couldn't of done it.Maybe it's more acceptable in India? --Murph

Peace Lover,<P>I've stayed faithful to my W....it hasn't been easy, but it takes a stronger man to resist than to give in.<P>Maybe ask your H, why would he risk you health by having an affair and run the risk of giving you a STD or break your heart?<P>Hang in There!

My husband and I have been married 8 years May 23. We have been together for 12. He has never ever ever been unfaithful in the time we have been married. He did however have an outside relationship when he was 19 and in college if that counts for anything. it was never physical more emotinal, but why the heck did that happpen? anywya, he is a great husband.<BR>mercy

Are all days cold and barren?...<BR>Are all nights starless and cloudy?...<BR>Are all birds vultures of prey?...<BR>Are all dogs vicious?...<BR>Are all clouds full of thunder and lightening?...<BR>Are all winds torents from hurricanes?...<P>I too humbly...<BR>...am a faithful husband.<P>To hurt and devasted women...<BR>...the <I>male</I> world could look very cruel...<P>There are many men who are faithful...<BR>... the struggle we all have is to find partners who fill that need of faithfulness.<P> <P>Jim<P>

Yes we do exist, I have been 100% faithful to wife from day one in our relationship and marriage of 5 years.<BR>

HI,<BR> I'm sure some men here wonder if all WOMEN are unfaithful.<BR> I have been faithful for 15 years. My W is living with OM and I'm STILL faithful, completely faithful. I hope I can remain that way under the circumstances. I believe I will. <BR> GOOD LUCK & PRAYERS FRANK

Thanks for your comments and keep them coming. I'm going out of town for 3 days, but when I return I'm going to printout these postings and have a "heart-to-heart" with my husband. Peace lover

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by peace lover:<BR><B>Would the men out there who have been 100% faithful physically to their wives please post this information? My husband believes all men are unfaithful to their wives sometime during their marriages. He says he doesn't know a single married man that hasn't cheated on his wife. He's from India so that also may have something to do with it. </B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>In nearly 15 years of marriage, I have NEVER been unfaithful to my W. However, I take none of the credit. God gets it all. He has kept me sane through this whole ordeal. He has given me the sense and where with all to sense those feelings and not act on them.<P>Besides I NEVER want her to feel what I have felt. But alas I have failed because OM did it to her by cheating with another OW besides his W with my W.<P>Besides to top it all off she has had 8 affairs in the last 7 years.<P>------------------<BR><B><I>God Bless,<BR>Rob</I></B><BR> regilmor@swbell.net <p>[This message has been edited by professorg (edited May 04, 2000).]

Peace Lover,<P>Your H is <B>WRONG</B>. It sounds like he is engaging in self-justification ("if everybody does it then it's OK for me too")<P>Count me among the faithful (nearly 17 years)<P>------------------<BR>But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.<BR>Galatians 5:22-23

Count me in the faithful category---12 years

I meant what I said, and I said what I meant. A husband faithful, 100%.

While I have to admit there have been times when I've "lusted in my heart" ala Jimmy Carter, I can honestly say that I've never had an EA/PA in twenty years of marriage.

Count me in. I have been completely faithful to my wife of 9 years and it has been easy. When all you want and desire at home, why stray away from that?

Faithful 3 years - young marriage but still.<BR>Wife unfaithful once (still in debate) But I love her and we are going to get over it.

Add me to the list of being Emotionally AND Physically faithful to my bride - 21 years and counting.<P>SHA<P>P.S. I wasn't the greatest husband in the world during all those years - but I am now <p>[This message has been edited by Sir Hurts Alot (edited May 04, 2000).]

My bride is the woman that I pledged eight years ago "Have and to hold from this day forward, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until we are parted by death." <P>This was not an earthly contract, but a holy covenant witnessed by the Lord God Almighty. He will continue to give me the strength and the will to keep my covenant, although with divorce pending, this is certainly one of the "for worse" times.<P>I have been and remain true to her.<BR>