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MY wife was sexually abused by her grandfather and she has a problem with infeldelity. could this be the reason she can't be faithful?
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I did some research for a paper on Infidelity and that is defiently a reason why she cannot be faithful. I cannot grasp exactly why at this moment... I can get my papers from storage and let you know... I am in the middle of moving, but I did find the information by typing in Infidelity on the address box for searching on the web... try it.. It has to do with sexual issues.<P>I will find it tomorrow.. I am in the middle of moving into our new house, but it is with my college stuff..<P>mercy
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I was sexually abused by a relative as a child and young adult. <P>It caused me to sometimes feel sick to my stomach during sex.<P>I was the betrayed.....I never was unfaithful in any relationship.
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<small>[ February 23, 2005, 11:13 AM: Message edited by: hanora ]</small>
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NO she hasn't had counciling for it yet and now we are facing a divorce we are scheduled to go to counciling next week but I don't want to say anything in front of her because I have mentioned it to her and she became enraged and said she was normal but the way I look at it is that this type of behavior is not of the norm. I know I have had a hard time letting go of the things she has done in the past and she claims this is the main reason why she wants a divorce any suggestions on how to bring this topic up to the councilor
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