WOW, NoMas! I can really relate to some of your posts. How long has it been since you've had contact w/OW? Is it completely over, or do you bounce back and forth? Just wondering. In my situation, the OM was not married, just myself. My H knows about XOM because of new OC, long story. Anyway, I would say I'm doing really well, but still fighting withdrawl in a weird sort of way. I wonder if this is something one ever gets over. ????? Hang in there, there sure is a lot of support out here! This forum has really helped me lately! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]