w and I had our weekly arguement, this time for the entertainment of others as we did it publicly this time. <BR>The problem ? I guess what all divorces get down to, money. Earlier in the eweek, I called w to tell her I felt like she was punishing me in her divorce proposal as she had me responsible for all fees, court costs, plus the refiancing charges on the house which will cause me to go into dept another 20-30 yrs. I was also concerned about her low statement of income for child support.<BR>She approached me yesterday at my sons football practice and asked why I was asking such a high figure for child support when she said she would buy whatever the kids wanted. I told her first I didn't set the support and second why should I trust that she will be around.<BR>She said she is divorcing me ,not the kids, but I told her we are a package whethere she liked it or not.<BR>She then proceeded to tell me that my income estimates were too high because she only is working part time but does pick up extra work. Her idea of extra work amounted to $6000 last yr. She reported $22000 for child support purposes but her tax return last yr shows $28000. In calculating this years income I came up with $32000. They submitted $25000 so the diffence could be over $7000 as I didn't figure in any extra time.<BR>Any way we argued for that for a while till she left in a huff. She couldn't even wait around till the end of practice to talk to our son.<BR>Later that nite my son called his m, and she told him she will take him shopping in Cleveland(1 hr away) but since she didn't know where to go, the om would probably drive. This is after last week were kids were supposed to meet om but he went straight to bed when he got home. She also said that the kids would meet him when they are ready. I guess he asked om to drive, yea right.<BR>There isn't much I can do about it, I guess this is her way at getting back at me as she knows it bugs the h**l out of me.<BR>I guess I could back off on the child support issue but knowing that I can't trust her why should I.