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Hmmmmm, let's see. I am fine, almost good really. There has been no contact for a few months now, H has been going to sex addict meetings, and marriage counseling is going well. ALL HAIL THE WONDER OF PROZAC. I am working out every day, I even ran in a 5K on Saturday. I am fitting nicely in size 18 jeans, and I must say I turn me on WOOO MAMA. Because of H's big accident and not working we had to file bankruptcy. That was kind of a bummer, but some good has come out of it - we don't have to worry about selling our stupid bad neighborhood house, it is just gone, we aren't argueing about money, there are no credit cards he can use without me knowing, all money is cash through "the bank of James" (my dad). And I think the bankruptcy kind of ties us together even more - we are in the same boat, no chica is going to look at him as a meal ticket..... Health wise I am doing awesome - depression lifting in a big way, weight down, blood pressure NORMAL!!! and the doc is putting me on thyroid medicine because I guess I am only running at 25% which adds to the depression, weight, tired....... My kids are thriving out here in the sticks of Wisconsin. Geeze, I am A - OK. I still have my moments, probably always will, but we are really sailing along. OH - had our anniversary in November - spent it in the hospital keeping watch over H who had to have emergency appendectomy. I am trying to only go on the computer a tiny bit - it is kind of a LB at our house for whatever reason, but if anyone needs me ever my email is reddingwilkie@cs.com

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He has been living with the OW and her kids for 21 months now. As of early January, my H will have divorced me. He is spending less and less time with our children. He "couldn't" go to their teacher conferences this year. Last year he was very anxious to have them for a second Thanksgiving dinner - this year he cancelled because he was sick and has not mentioned anything about rescheduling. Neither of our older daughters are speaking to him; a couple of the other kids have lost virtually all trust in him. He still is out of work, and his unemployment has run out and he seems, not surprisingly, stressed. I am still employed, but the company I work for isn't doing very well. <P>Everyone who assured me that it gets better was, unfortunately, terribly wrong. <BR>

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