I wish I had time to go through all the topics for the last ten days. I need to visit the MIL in the physical rehab center, pay the power bill, get the tank filled. But I decided to give any and everyone a chance to take a few shots at me while I'm gone, life was getting too comfortable.<P>My W has informed me that the bills are coming in for the business. The ONLY way she can get a loan is with my signature. With the loan she is able to buy into the company as a partner. <P>This, after she said she did not want me to invest in it. WOW! Wouldn't any of you jump at a chance like this??<P>I talked to the person who fronted the business to begin with and he told me this was coming up. I do not know what other financial issues may be involved, so, I am planning to have another conference with him, real soon! <P>All because I am unable to refinance. I can, and have for three months, maintained the house payments, and insurance. I am attached to this house because my family had never owned one due to my father's calling.<P>I have faith in my wife's will to succede. It is the owner's brother I have no confidence in. Either way I end up homeless. One way is faster than the other. <P>What are the interest rates doing lately?<P>RRunRR<P>(Let's see how many creative posters can come up with a different word for sucker!)<P>

rrunrr,<P>I don't know all the details of your situation...<P>Is she still home?...<BR>Is the affair still on?...<P>I think you're still on Plan A...<BR>...and that is good!<P>But...<P>Plan A doesn't mean you empty yourself (and all your finances) on a somewhat chancy investment at best.<P>It may appear that you are meeting her EN of <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3335_fin.html" TARGET=_blank>Financial Support</A>...<BR>...but if it puts you in ruin... you can't.<P>It's like trying to satify the EN of <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3310_sex.html" TARGET=_blank>Sexual Fulfillment</A> at the risk of getting an STD!<P>I won't go as far as "sucker"...<BR>...but it isn't that far off!<P>Praying for a "well thought out" decision <P>Jim