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.<BR><p>[This message has been edited by jcvc2000 (edited July 27, 2000).]
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It is between him and his wife. Stay out of it.<P>How will it help anyone, except your own desire for revenge? Besides, you never know how something like this could boomerang...it could conceivably damage you or your wife...<P>It is an ugly can of worms, and not yours to open...Give it another year or two, and I bet worrying about whether he ever got "justice" will be the last thing on your mind.<P>Kathi
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Dear JVCV2000:<P>I agree with KAM 6318. It's between the XOM and his wife. Are you sure you're not wanting to tell the XOM's wife as some form of revenge? If you and your wife are happy and content together isn't that in some way "revenge" enough? It seems to me that that is a whole lot more worthwhile.
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<BR> Do not tell his wife; just be happy that you and your wife are doing fine. You need to LET IT GO> God Bless you, GWM
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<small>[ February 23, 2005, 11:02 AM: Message edited by: hanora ]</small>
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Thank you Kam6318, Lost it, Lost 123 and Hanora.<BR>I needed an outside opinion and you all gave me the same answer.<BR>You are all wonderful people with lots of wisdom and good intentions<BR>I will NOT tell her.<BR>I hope that some day in the future I am able to send the OM a forgiveness letter.<BR>God bless you all.<P>
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