Good morning Missy,<P>Last night I read your post "H still loves OW". I was told that Lostva had a success story and read a whole lot of her posts. I saw many similarities in her story and yours Missy. Have you read her story? I think you should.<P>Her H left and did not contact her for months, H was adamant about wanting a divorce. He was certain it was over and told her so. It really looked bleak. She plan A when she could never giving up hope although she didn't see him very much. Then around the 6 month mark he started to come around, started to spend time with her. Then asked to return.<P>I agree w/Sheba, you do have hope. You should work on yourself and Plan A when you can. Stop focusing on H alone. His situation is not setup for success, you know that. It's bound to fail, and when it does you'll then be ready.<P>Keep your chin up and take care.<P>Jo

Hi:<BR>yes I have read Lostva posts before. I think her situation if unique. I just pray mine turns out that way. Thanks for the concern.....

Hi, y'all!<P>Actually, not so unique. Once we got through the mess and I re-read the material, seems to US that he followed the pattern as if he were reading a script!! Kinda seems that way for your H, too, Missy. <P>Good luck, guys!<P>Lori