My daughter informed me this morning that my ex told her to tell me I might want to get a new name to use on the marriage builders forum, to prevent snooping by others! Daughter is only one who knows I post on this forum and then its infrequent. I did send ex one post but it was several months ago. Daughter made comment, that he could be worried OW could be posting just to play with my mind, because she is not the nice person she pretends to be. I am not going to change my name for this forum or any other forum I use. No one is going to run me off, especially other woman. I also think ex should have spoke to me personally about his concerns and not gone through daughter. For a long time I have been trying to restore a relationship with my ex, but this is causing my love to slowly die> Thanks for letting me vent.

db 713<P>If you don't want to change it, then don't. The next time you speak to him you might ask him why he said that to D and not to you. <P>Maybe he doesn't want OW to know your true thoughts and feelings. I don't know. <P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>Hepatitis C, educate yourself ! <A HREF="http://hepatitis-central.com/" TARGET=_blank>http://hepatitis-central.com/</A>

Hey db,<P>Are you the same db713 who asked a question to Michelle on the divorce busters thread?<P>She answered and has your question on the site. You are famous!!!<P>The OM and W's twin sister know I'm here too. Good for them. Maybe they will learn something. I can only hope.<P>I'm not changing my name come hell or high water. They can go pound sand up their [censored]! If they are that interested they know the phone number.<P>Do what db713 want's to do. Pardon my french, but, [censored] 'em all and the good ones twice.<P>Time for us to hold our heads up high. I acknowledged my faults and have made tremendous progress in eliminating them.<P>KMA!<BR> <P>------------------<BR>"It's not over till we say it's over! Was it over when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor? H*ll no!" Blutto...Animal House 1984<P>Wishing us all the Best.<P>Medic<p>[This message has been edited by MEDIC238 (edited June 19, 2000).]

db173,<P>You hold your own,do what you want to do! <P>Medic,<P>All that I can say is...............<P>You go boy! <P>Go Zippy,Go Zippy,Go Zippy!!!!!<P>(KMA......Ha,LOL.....LOL.....gosh,I love it!)<P>Hang in there!<P>Gina <P><P>------------------<BR>"If we deny love that is given to us,if we refuse to give love because we fear pain or loss,then our lives will be empty,our loss greater!"-----Anonymous----

Thanks Deb and Medic for the support, and yes I am the db713 from Michelle's forum. I have finally regained most of my self esteem and have decided to no longer be walked on by ex and OW. I have started holding my head up high again, and no longer feel ashamed when I see them together. Why I did in the first place is still a mystery to me.