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#873036 06/24/00 06:13 PM
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my life is a total mess.h moved out a couple of months ago and moved in with a relative.recently OW and OC moved from another state and moved in with H in an apartment.i am on plan b.H has hurt me to much,i am thinking of letting go .plan b is not working because he refuses to notify a friend of ours about visitation or anything.kids are older and he just calls them and says lets get together.even if he broke up with ow he has to much pride to call the friend to get in touch with me.we are not communicating at all.i dont even know where he is living.any advice.soon2bx

#873037 06/24/00 06:31 PM
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Yes...<P>Keep up the no contact...<BR>...and he will at the beginning of Plan B...<BR>...be so happy you moved to it!<P>It takes time...<BR>...on average 3X longer than Plan A (according to Dr. H's recommended periods in SSA)<P>This (Plan B) is for you...<BR>...to save your love for your spouse...<BR>...by <B>not</B> obsessing over your spouse<BR>...but by making yourself happier... more satisfied<BR>...a better future spouse for your H (or someone else... if life leads you that way)<BR>...a stronger person<BR>...a more faith-filled individual<P>boy...<BR>...you've got a lot to do!<BR>...as do all of us!<P>Don't let the obsessive thoughts of your H fill your mind/heart!<P>Plan B... is for <B>You</B>....<BR>...focus on <B>You</B>!<P> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Your friend... [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Jim

#873038 06/26/00 04:21 PM
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How are you doing?<P>Your road is a tough one, but you can do it. Hang in there! <P>All the best. --HBC

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How are you doing today? Hang in there and keep doing those things for you.<BR>Lora


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