OK, so I am back from my business trip. While I was gone H called me each morning, he too traveled, each night, and throughout the day told me he loved me, missed me etc. Wanted me to be home so he could give me a hug wanted me to rub his back (I always ask if I can and he never lets me..) I was very surprised about all of this. THis weekend he wanted to buy new furniture, spent time with my folks and well did things around the house...seemed to really be into his old self. Then he came to me with this flask and little cups that he said a couple of the girls that work for him gave him as a joke...(so he can carry his own booze when he has to fly coach ) anyway. I know that he has had a flask in the back of his truck that he keeps covered with a jacket for oh 6 months now...I asked him about that flask and he said that he had bought it for himself and through it out. I checked the back and found the box but nothing in it...basically, it was a lie in my opinion. So we have this "great" weekend and I learn that he is still lying. <BR>Should I bring this up to him? I just feel like such the watch dog. I just don't get any of this. I must have been blind all these years. I just didn't realize this is the person I married. I think that the OW gave him that for Christmas. And like a loser he didn't toss it out or even keep it at his office...