Yikes! Does this bring back memories! After 9 months of No Contact, the former OW e-mailed my H trying to pursue & rekindle the relationship.<P>He e-mailed her back with stupid jokes. I suppose he thought that e-mail friendship was harmless. HA! Luckily I immediately found out because he e-mailed her from our home.<P>By that time, we were recovering fairly well and that sure put a damper on everything. I was so pissed off and hurt that he would even communicate with her.<P>I felt that I already gave him a chance to restore our marriage and told him that after 9 months, he better make a decision. I had about had it with all of this affair crap! So, I told him that if he wanted to see her, then fine...go ahead...but the kids & I will be gone.<P>He said that wasn't what he wanted and didn't understand why he even e-mailed her back (I'm wondering why also).<P>So, together we sat down, and he e-mailed her back with a "No Contact" letter. In this letter, my H wrote:<P>Do not e-mail me or contact me ever again. What we allowed to happen should have never happennend. I regret it. I love my wife and my children. I will never do anything again to jeopordize them.<P>Then, he canceled his e-mail account.<P>I also e-mailed her and told her to stop invading our privacy, and to get her own life and stay out of ours! I wrote that if she continued the contact, then we would consider it harrassment.<P>She wrote back professing that she cared about my husband and that no one would take that away from her. Funny thing is that he doesn't feel that way about her. Joke is on her! She also said that we wouldn't hear from her again.<P>It sure is coincidental though. Those hang-up calls at our home, tremendously subsided once that "No Contact" letter was sent to her.<P>Is your W willing to write a "No Contact" letter to this OM? I think that this is what needs to be done. Hopefully, he will stop.