Hi, Renee!<P>I was just wondering, what is the deal w/your H and his Dad? I haven't figured out why he spends so much time w/him or what that's all about. Just wondering.<P>Hope you're still doing well! I'm thinking of you!

Momma, <P>I wish I had an answer for you. I would love to be on the pedestal that he is. <BR>He is an only child. They have always been very close. <BR>I just wish I had known how close before I said I DO. <BR>His dad is a very mentally sick man. He has to be. My H has always wanted dads approval. And of course dad is an egotistical Bast$%#. So he is not even going to compliment him.<BR>H says that I dont understand. I was like your right I dont! I will never understand. It was always him and his dad. Then when I came into the picture it was hell! From day one it was hell. <BR>Then when we moved out here to the farm taht made it even worse. <P>This is my opinion. Everyone in this community knows how his dad is. NOONE likes him. He has to be the best at everything. And on and on. <BR>So he has no friends.<BR>He has always treated his mom like crap. they have money. And she drove a 76 Nova until 3 years ago. He would not even buy her a car. And she is the bread and butter in the family. <BR>My H use to want me to be just like his mom.And cater to him . I cant do that. <BR>Thanks<BR>Renee<P>------------------<BR>We can do all things through Christ which strengthens us. Repeat that 5 times a day. I promise you success!