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#874550 07/06/00 11:16 AM
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Beerman,<P>Is your W pregnant with the OM? I am a betrayer. It sounds to me like she still has the fog over her eyes. I am not familiar with your situation. SO I really cant give a big opinion. It does sound to me like she is still living the fog. <P>Prayers<BR>Renee<P>------------------<BR>We can do all things through Christ which strengthens us. Repeat that 5 times a day. I promise you success!

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Hey Beerman,<P>I don't know, it sounds pretty good to me. Yeah, I'd let her come home, and realize that the real work will start when she walks in that door. Maybe, like I was told once by Lostva, you should take a few weeks to transition, to date, talk, see if she's willing to go to counseling with you.<P>Yep, she sounds like she's still foggy, and the pregnancy will surely add a confusing dimension to all of this, but maybe, just maybe, the fog is lifting. Can you get her home and accept the way things are? Can she guarantee you that things are over with OM? Will he want to see the baby? Unfortunatley, she will now always be tied to him through the child...can you handle that?<P>Sounds like you guys have a lot of work to do yet, but hey, she's thinking hard, and you are looking pretty good to her I bet.<P>allison

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