Hi Guys,<P>Just when you think life can't suck much worse, it throws another curve ball.<P>My FXW [Toni, Val will be the second] is plan A'ing me big time. I can't say I don't like it. Almost forgot what it is like to feel being treated nice, special or someone paying you some attention.<P>We went to see the fireworks on Friday night and took our younger boy, T2 was waiting for his GF and didn't want to go. She [Toni] stayed to meet Kelly and we were teasing him about baby pictures.<P>Toni left some pics of days gone by and it got me thinking. Not a good thing for Medic. <P>She just stopped by to drop off the kids and was flirting major league. I'm starting to have feelings for her again. I was the one that cheated 14 years ago. Not something you put on your resume.<P>As if I wasn't confused enough to start out with, now this.<P>God hates me!<P>------------------<BR>"It's not over till we say it's over! Was it over when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor? H*ll no!" Blutto...Animal House 1984<P>Wishing us all the Best.<P>Medic

Hey Tim!<P>Not to sound like a genius or anything but I kinda knew this was coming. You've been talking about spending time with her and having lots of talks with her about you and Val. <P>You have some serious thinking to do!! <P>Good luck!<BR>Mitzi

Zippy,<P>God does not hate you my friend, he loves you and he is showwing you how you have changed.<P>The fickle finger of fate swings both ways.<P>Bill<P>------------------<P><BR>May the roads rise to meet you,<BR>May the winds always be at your back,<BR>May the sun shine warm upon your face,<BR>The rains fall soft upon your fields,<BR>And until we meet again,<BR>May god hold you<BR>In the hollow of his hand.<p>[This message has been edited by WilliamJ (edited July 16, 2000).]

What a coincidence!!! Gee! So is my husband's FXW!!! Uggghhh!

Oh Mitzi!,<P>Why didn't you warn me? Cheese and crackers! I should have bought a vowel. No one can believe that we are friends and divorced. Of course it did take 10 years to get over the fighting part.<P>Her car broke down a few months ago and called me for a ride to work from the highway. So, I took her and a co worker up to the nursing home. She told the staff her car died, they asked how she got there, said XH. They said, no really, who picked you up?<P>If this is a test, I should have studied better.<P>BILL!<P>Dude, what's up! Yeah, Iv'e changed big time. Just wasn't expecting an iceberg in the middle of summer. As you can see things are going just great here in Pennsy.<BR><P>------------------<BR>"It's not over till we say it's over! Was it over when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor? H*ll no!" Blutto...Animal House 1984<P>Wishing us all the Best.<P>Medic

Unbloody believable Medic! (no pun intended) <P>So the FXW is a hottie to ya now, huh?<P>Now that you've learned the MB principals you must know that reciprocating the flirting and participating or encouraging more would be a MAJOR LB.<P>Although, IF and only IF, you've decided you want the first X back as opposed to the second X, then I guess you're okay. But you can't have them both, DUDE!<P>If you're serious about the attraction and maybe even feelings, and conflicted about "who" you want, then I would start a list of pros and cons for both X's. That's all I can think of right now. And saying that to you feels really funny and kinda against my grain.<P>Jo<p>[This message has been edited by Resilient (edited July 17, 2000).]

Medic, Medic, Medic.........<P>what are we going to do with you....<P>Do some soul searching, and the answers will be there. Might take some time, but they are there.<P>Have to go now, am changing the plates on the car from NSW to Qld. <P>Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you, and sending the biggest hug to you. Although, I don't think you need mine right now..........<P>take care of you, and I'll check back later<P>Jo