Realism And Romance<BR>Read: Ephesians 5:22-33 <P>Husbands, love your wives . . . . Let the wife see that she respects her husband. --Ephesians 5:25,33<P><BR>Good marriages have a balance. The practical realities of daily living are enhanced by the joy and spontaneity of continually falling in love with each other. <P>Realism can help a husband to see that he is taking his wife for granted and is not being sensitive to her feelings. It can cause a wife to see that her critical comments are tearing down her husband's self-respect. <P>Realism is not enough, however. Romance, often discarded after the wedding, keeps a marriage from growing dull. It can prevent the kind of situation depicted in the cartoon of an elderly couple sitting on the front porch of their home. The husband is saying, "Sometimes, Sarah, when I think of how much you mean to me, I can hardly keep from telling you so." <P>Paul's words in Ephesians 5 encourage a love between two people that reflects Christ's self-sacrificing devotion to His church. In addition, it's a love filled with kindness and tenderness. <P>Whether you're dating or have been married half a year or half a century, Christ can help you balance your relationship with realism and romance. Keep drawing on His love and see what it does for your marriage. --DJD <P><BR>Despite the faults that partners have,<BR>Their marriage still can thrive;<BR>But both must look to God for help<BR>To keep their love alive. --JDB<P>The bonds of matrimony aren't worth much <BR>unless the interest is kept up.<P><P>------------------<BR>God Bless,<BR>Rob<P><BR>