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w talks to someone today
#876940 07/21/00 08:54 AM
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hellow all, well today w will meet with a counsler. im so nervis like we are having a child. im scared to death what she is going to come back and tell me. i cant tell if she is realy trying to get help ,or just doing this so she can come back and tell me they said it will never work. w wont try at all to get through this, she wont talk to me about anything. how she can sit down and have wild sex with me and , then just turn cold afterwords , i cant understand. some times she is real nice to me , then some times she is so mean. on again off again type of thing. in the meantime i seem to be loosing feelings for her now. i have been out of the house now for 4 weeks, to me thats a long time after 20 years. i will let everybody know how it went today when i find out. thanks for leting me unload here. bye<BR>gary
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Hi Gary,<P>Just have a moment here, but I wanted to hop on and tell you that you are not alone...we are reading and hoping for the best for you.<P>I can't think of your wife getting help as a negative, a good counselor will see what she is going through and help her see what she is doing. She may use it to justify that since she has gone to counseling she has "done everything now" to save the marriage. I hope she gets something out of this. It certainly can not hurt.<P>I know you are nervous as can be. I would be too if my H was sitting on a therapists couch without me there. (fat chance). Lets' just pray that she found a good therapist. I will be thinking of you and waiting for an update.<P>allison

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