Oh what a tangled web,<P>I have some questions for anyone out there trying to Plan A while their WS continues to seek attention from OP. <BR>For details on my D-Day and beyond see: <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000233.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000233.html</A> <BR> <BR>I have known since D-Day they were still in contact with each other and W makes no excuses about it. Today I found they are passing notes and making arrangements for little meetings after work. I stopped by her office today to say hi and instead found a note on her car from him, I read it and thought about getting rid of it or confronting her, but in the end I just put it back and went back to work without anyone knowing I was ever there. I did drive by OMs work after the time they were to meet and he was still at work, so maybe they just couldn't hook up. Anyway I'm looking for opinions, considering she will not have a car after 7 Aug and that on 23 Aug we are moving to Germany together, should I just let this go and really hit Plan A hard when I get there or should I confront her??<P><P>------------------<BR>Fixer95<BR>++++++<BR>"Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it."<BR>-Ferris Bueller, Ferris Bueller's Day Off

I started a reply and lost it!<P>Does she claim that there is no contact?? That seems the only reason to confront. If she is openly seeing him, you would be giving her an ultimatum??<P>The move sounds like an incredible opportunity that most of us don't get. It sounds like you have a good chance to do a good plan A.

No she doesn't claim no contact, she has told me they had contact since D-Day. But, she usually tells me when and where. But I think now I am seeing that there are the times she tells me about and the times she doesn't tell me about.<P>I don't plan to confront her with it, I guess I just had to vent a little.<P>Thank<BR>Fixer95