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#878264 07/31/00 09:37 AM
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I just wanted to say thanks to everyone for the support. What led to our argument for him leaving? He called from work, (11:30p.m.) to inform me that he was going to have a few drinks with "the guys". My gut told me "yeah right", and I told him that i wasnt playing his games anymore of going back and forth he was going to continue, he could get out. He never came home, until yesterday, and that was just to pack up his clothes. I talked with him, asked him why he keeps doing this, his only response was "I tried". I asked him how it was he tried, he couldnt give me an answer. I told him that I had been trying, I had gone to the library, I had been online, and I start counseling on Tuesday, he cant even pick up a book. He said that the 11/2 that he was here, things should have got somewhat better, I told him that things would get better but that he would have to put forth a little more effort. Spend some time with me and our children, not himself and his family. Out of the 11/2 he was here, he spent one day with our children and I. And I had to beg for that. He is going to court today, to try and have both the anti harassment orders dropped. I was in the hospital last night for contractions, and it hurt that I couldnt have him there, or even call him. Where do I find Plan A?

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Here's Plan A:<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html" TARGET=_blank>www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html</A> <P>You might also want to read this post:<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum1/HTML/011323.html" TARGET=_blank>www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum1/HTML/011323.html</A> <P>Hang in there--<P>Kathi


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