Hi all<P>An update on this ride I am on.<P>I delivered my plan B letter and a a dozen red roses to my WS at her place of employment yesterday. I recieved a very cold response at the time. That did not bother me as I was doing what I felt was necessary at the time and I have realised that I cannot control my W's feelings,thoughts and actions, only my own.<P>Today was also my big day of as I WAS going to do my sky dive for my life changes and my own special birthday present to myself. The flight was cancelled due to the high wind speed. Bugger, I was ready to to meet my destiny if I arived on the ground in one piece. I have rescheduled the sky dive for tomorrow afternoon so its still on and I WILL jump this time as I am more determined to do it to prove to myself I can do anything.<P>The amazing twist to the day was that my W called on my D's cellular phone after I was supposed to jump from a perfectly good plane. Now my W wants to speak to me tomorrow regarding what she has read in my letter and has thought deeply about her actions.<P>Yes I know, dont second guess what she is intending to talk about but this is the only postive response I have recieved in four months of trying plan A.<P>Whatever the outcome from my W tomorrow I know I have tried the best I can for reconcillation. <P>Wish me luck and prayers on my big day tomorrow.<P>Bye lol<BR>tim

Good luck!!!

Looks like you're kind of in the same boat I am. My plan B letter took a while to sink in, but I think my WS is just about ready to give the OM the boot. Best of luck to you.<P>The jump (if you haven't already done it by the time you read this) will be much easier than anything happening with your W. Is it tandem or solo? I did the tandem route my first time, and it was a piece of cake. Either you'll love it and want to do it over and over again, or you won't!

TimTam,<P>Tell us what happened, what did W want to talk about???<P>We're on pins and needles.<P>Jo

Also TimTam,<P>Please share your Plan B letter. I'd love to read it. Hope you don't feel like I'm prying.<P>Jo

Goodness Timtam:<P>Loosing a few pounds or moving to the big city. That's my life change. And here you are jumping out of airplanes. Don't feel so adventuresome now. <P>To each his own. Good luck tomorrow on the jump...piece of cake.<P>As for the really tough stuff...talking to the WS...hope she has some good news for you for a change...you deserve it. Let us know what happens.<P>I'd also like to read your letter if you can share with us...we know it's personal and understand if you don't want to.<P>Buffy<P><BR>