You know the saying "when things seem to good to be true, they are"<P>How about when things seem so unreal. Like when a spouse does a complete turnaround in a day, disconnecting from friends, family, wife and belonging...<P>and acts so blatantly out of character, not even being able to coherently describe what is going on... With he and OW side by side all day long working, closed off to the rest of their lives (their kids, families) about which they say will be "fine".......<P>I obviously am not sleeping too well!!!