Have just checked his cell phone bill and it appears he is still calling her and sending her text messages,even when he wakes up he sends her one.I had hoped he might have cooled things with her as he'd said he'd been at home alone most of last week,but he's been calling her all the time,even after he leaves from seeing me,he rings her,makes me sick thinking its still going on,had hoped he'd cooled things down,although why he's not seeing her and calling her instead is beyond me.<BR>I feel gutted again now,we don't stand a chance with her still around.its her b/day today too,bet he's with her.<BR>He had planned to spend his b/day with me next week,but sent me an email today saying he'd been asked out by work and could we cancel-do you think he's cancelled me for her ? feel so down again,just when i thought we mighbe making progress and he seemed to be responding to me being nice !

Sorry that you are going through this. I don't have any advice for you but hopefully some of the pro's will step in to provide some sound advice.<P>I know you're hurting and feeling betrayed but don't give up on yourself. Keep learning and reading as much as possible. Tess