For those of you who didn't get a chance to read what I had posted this weekend. The H spent the weekend with OW taking care of her after surgery because she has no one else. POOR THING!! He left on Friday night 6 PM and did'n come home until Sunday morning 10:30AM. I'm so mad I could spit nails and the whole 9 yards. Then today as I am on my way to work the OW just happens to call the house and ask my H to go pick up her meds, go to the store and get her a few things since she cann't get out to do it her self. When he tells me this it is was all I could do not to go off on him.He also tells me, "Well you wanted me to be honest with you so I am." It was in a realy nasty tone. I really wanted to tell him how I felt and tell him to pack his stuff and get the *** out of my life. I can not take any more. He promised me that it was over when he came back home in June that it was over with her but every time I turn around he is talking or seeing her. This is the 3rd time now since April of last year. I have come to the end of my rope. I'm going to go off on him. He has no respect or cares about my fealings. He would not be doing this if he did. RIGHT????? I'm trying not to do anything quickly but I'm ready to go off the deep end. Any suggestion???

Okay you been in Plan A since last September this is the third time since last year that he has supposedly ended the affair. Have your tried Plan B yet? I would tell him, IMO emphatically that you want the marriage but as long as is still seeing the OW he can live elsewhere. Sorry may not be the MB way but your H is beyond belief. As I posted before what you are doing is not working and he continues to walk all over you. So try something different! Maybe get some counseling with Dr Harley.<p>[This message has been edited by TMD (edited August 28, 2000).]

I agree. As long as your H can play the both of you why not continue???

I can't say it any better than above!!!!!